A New Road Travelled

Month: October 2018 (Page 2 of 2)

Learning Activity Three

Working through the three leadership surveys has been an insightful experience.  To a large degree, all three surveys reinforced what I know about myself as a leader.  As I have reflected on the process and accompanying reading, it has was good to consider that while some attributes of a leader may be innate traits, others are learned skills.  This reflection is especially important as there are definitely times when I know that I have to work out of an area which is not a strength and I appreciate knowing that as I grow as a leader, there are skills which can be developed.

The Style Questionnaire revealed that I scored very high in relationship and moderately low on task.  This is important for me to be aware of.  While I have the privilege to work with a competent staff, there are times when relational sensitivities need to be diminished to push someone in a task oriented situation.  In this case, it is valuable to consider myself as a coach and in that regard, challenge a staff member to become a better version of themselves by completing a given task more effectively.   Not surprisingly the Leadership Theory and Practice questionnaire demonstrated that I am most proficient with Human Skills, followed by Conceptual and then Technical. Finally the leadership traits survey was beneficial for me.  The most highly rated traits were Empathy, Sensitivity, Dependability and Perceptiveness.  These were among the traits I also rated highly for myself. This is a good exercise to ensure that my self-concept is aligned with how I am perceived by those I work with.

Light from many Lamps – Part One

Dr. Fredrick Loomis received a letter containing eight words which changed his life. “Enjoy yourself – it is later than you think.” (Watson, 1951) Upon hearing these same words I immediately found myself reflecting as a spouse, a parent and as a leader. I have watched many people sink their whole self into their career, leaving little of themselves remaining for people, spontaneity or God’s subtle leading.   In response, I decided as a young teacher that I would work to maintain a work/people balance.  The need for this has been reinforced for me by authors such as Stephen Covey who speaks of balancing spokes of life, Dr. Richard Swenson who promotes margin in life and from my dad who continually reminds me that my children will grow up quickly, and they have.

As a leader, this story makes me aware that it is always important to make time for people, that a small gesture can go a long way, and like the lady who sent the letter, it is important to take the time to humbly speak words of wisdom into the life of someone who needs it. From a day to day perspective, if I allow myself to be consumed with the urgent email, phone call, budget report or meeting preparation, I may miss the opportunity to support a staff member who is having a challenging day. I may also miss the chance to celebrate the implementation of a new program, or I may not have the opportunity to say ” I saw what you did today, well done!” From a larger perspective, it is good to be reminded that I am replaceable, at least for a few days.  Because of this, I should be able to make time to attend my children’s sporting activities, continue my education, or take a day to enjoy something that I never otherwise have time to do.

If I make a list of what is important to me, it would include my faith, family, church community, career, friendships and spending time in nature.  If I was to make a list of where I spend most of my time, my thoughts, my energy, I would have two lists that were not in sync with each other.  While I am paid to have my mind on things related to my profession this story has further encouraged me to work to keep these two lists in balance.

Covey, S.R. (2004). The 7 habits of highly successful people (Rev. Ed.) New York. Free Press

Loomis F. (1951) Enjoy Yourself – it is later than you think. In L.E. Watson (Ed) Light From Many Lamps: a  treasury of inspiration. New York, NY. Simon and Schuster.

Swenson, R. A. (2004). Margin: restoring emotional, physical, financial, and time reserves to overloaded lives / Richard A. Swenson. Rev. ed. Colorado Springs, CO: NavPress.

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