Dr. Fredrick Loomis received a letter containing eight words which changed his life. “Enjoy yourself – it is later than you think.” (Watson, 1951) Upon hearing these same words I immediately found myself reflecting as a spouse, a parent and as a leader. I have watched many people sink their whole self into their career, leaving little of themselves remaining for people, spontaneity or God’s subtle leading.   In response, I decided as a young teacher that I would work to maintain a work/people balance.  The need for this has been reinforced for me by authors such as Stephen Covey who speaks of balancing spokes of life, Dr. Richard Swenson who promotes margin in life and from my dad who continually reminds me that my children will grow up quickly, and they have.

As a leader, this story makes me aware that it is always important to make time for people, that a small gesture can go a long way, and like the lady who sent the letter, it is important to take the time to humbly speak words of wisdom into the life of someone who needs it. From a day to day perspective, if I allow myself to be consumed with the urgent email, phone call, budget report or meeting preparation, I may miss the opportunity to support a staff member who is having a challenging day. I may also miss the chance to celebrate the implementation of a new program, or I may not have the opportunity to say ” I saw what you did today, well done!” From a larger perspective, it is good to be reminded that I am replaceable, at least for a few days.  Because of this, I should be able to make time to attend my children’s sporting activities, continue my education, or take a day to enjoy something that I never otherwise have time to do.

If I make a list of what is important to me, it would include my faith, family, church community, career, friendships and spending time in nature.  If I was to make a list of where I spend most of my time, my thoughts, my energy, I would have two lists that were not in sync with each other.  While I am paid to have my mind on things related to my profession this story has further encouraged me to work to keep these two lists in balance.

Covey, S.R. (2004). The 7 habits of highly successful people (Rev. Ed.) New York. Free Press

Loomis F. (1951) Enjoy Yourself – it is later than you think. In L.E. Watson (Ed) Light From Many Lamps: a  treasury of inspiration. New York, NY. Simon and Schuster.

Swenson, R. A. (2004). Margin: restoring emotional, physical, financial, and time reserves to overloaded lives / Richard A. Swenson. Rev. ed. Colorado Springs, CO: NavPress.