Timeless Words

From Act 1 Scene III of Hamlet, through the character Polonius, William Shakespeare speaks out sage advice. Make great friends and keep them, listen carefully to all before speaking, and finally for the benefit of yourself and others, be authentic (Shakespeare, 1951).  Each of these pieces of advice are important for anyone in a leadership position.

It is often said that it can be lonely at the top.  For the leader, developing a trusted team who is there to face challenges and celebrate victories.  Formally, my leadership team exists of just me. In practice however, I have had the privilege of bringing a variety of people into leadership roles within the school.  Several key teachers, admin assistants and the chairman of the board all work together as trusted members of my leadership team.  As advice givers, listening ears, and problem solvers, I trust and value each one.

Polonius continues his advice as he challenges his son to be a good listener. “Give every man thy ear but few thy voice” (Shakespeare, line 68).  As a leader this is so true.  Whether I am working with students, staff, parents or board members there are times when the community simply needs a chance to be heard.  Providing an opportunity for concerns or ideas to be voiced and then taking time to reflect, consider and strategize before responding is a healthy process. In this way, information comes forward but allows for wisdom to be applied.  Even though I think well on my feet, delaying my response has often been a helpful practice.

Finally, the golden nugget, “To thine own self be true” (Shakespeare, 1951). For myself and for any leader, authenticity must be the hallmark of our work with people.  While leadership often requires us to be all things to all people, we must  not compromise our core values.  At times I may need to work out of my comfort zone or balance fine lines socially and politically but I must must always be guided by three essential elements: the mission and vision of my organization, my faith in Christ, and the integrity of my character.  To work outside the boundaries of these elements would be to drift toward my demise as a leader.

As these words reach forward through history to make an impact, I am inspired to ask, which timeless words do you  reflect on as a leader?

 

Reference

Shakespeare, William, 1564-1616 author. (1951). The tragedy of Hamlet, Prince of Denmark.. In L.E. Watson (Ed) Light From Many Lamps: a  treasury of inspiration. New York, NY. Simon and Schuster.