Unit 8 Podcast

For this proposed action research study, I would like to share with you the concerns of indigenous procurement policies as they sit today. This is an important issue effecting government, tax payers and thus citizens of British Columbia and First Nations.

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Unit 8, Woman in Leadership

My thoughts on Woman in Leadership.

To provide a little background, I am employed at an indigenous organization which is actually for the most part very supportive of female leadership. This wasn’t always the case and yet I’m still faced with prejudices perhaps not internally but externally.

  1. What is the greatest challenge you have faced or are facing as a woman in leadership?

In my previous place of employment I moved up at an early age and so I’m not sure if it was just the fact that I was the only female but perhaps a little age discrimination as well. I recall sitting in meetings with all men and not feeling respected from the start. It didn’t matter if I had good ideas to share or if I was a productive leader with excellent key performance indicators. I found there were males in the organization that were manipulative and would do things to undermine me or look bad. For some time I had a female boss and so was somewhat shielded from some of the nepotism. Unfortunately things changes when she moved on. My first realization that something changed was after being unsuccessful in a job posting to another candidate that I knew I had more experience than. I also knew that I had a very successful job interview and presentation. One of the panel members was someone I considered a friend and he could hardly look me in the eye after. The writing was all over his face. I had to carefully consider my options, knowing my next move could have lasting career effects. I clearly had a case for discrimination and could pursue things legally or alternatively could move on to another place in the organization where I knew my skills would be valued. I chose the latter of the two and leading up to the Olympics I found myself in a position where I had value. Part of me thinks I should have done more so that I could set an example and ensure it did not ever happen to another female ever again but then on the other hand as luck would have it, I ended up with a great job offer in another company and have never looked back. Since I left the other organization on good terms I was able to receive a great reference.

  1. What is something that you do that helps you to meet or deal with this challenge?

Specially, I have not had to deal with gender discrimination in applying for a job however in my current employment I’ve noticed gender discrimination with outside organizations. In particular when working in the construction industry I have encountered males that will talk over me to other males in my organization, even though they are my direct reports. My direct reports are for the most part good about it but they do also participate at times. My tactic in dealing with these situations is to ignore the behaviour. Secretly I find it humorous the look on their faces after starting a meeting and they realize who’s who in my organization. It usually follows with a lot of sucking up. I figure I have one up on them and will choose the right time to use it to my advantage. In cases where I continue to meet with construction companies that know full well who I am, yet continue to discriminate I try and show patience. Eventually through the working relationship they come to know why I’m where I am as my performance speaks for itself.

  1. Do you have any other advice or encouragement for women in leadership?

Don’t change who you are to accommodate others with bad behaviours. Be humble and patient as the truth always comes out. Don’t let your insecurities get the better of you and be astute to knowing when people are trying to manipulate. The greatest revenge is in being successful and if you work hard and try your best, people will realize your value. Realize there will always exist prejudices, some more obvious than others but don’t let that effect your confidence in your abilities. Last don’t always take things personally. Sometimes it’s not gender that is the issue. Competitive environments can bring out the worst in people however it’s important to always work in good faith. Put your head down and do good work and ignore the rest. You have more supporters than you realize out there.

Unit 8, Light from many lamps

Henry David Thoreau discusses the need to simplify (Watson, 1951, p.231-238). I’ve come to learn in my life that being a successful leader requires a balance in all areas, including outside the workplace. Health, family and work life balance are equally important. This wasn’t always the case however.

As a young indigenous girl I thought the reason why my life was challenging was because I came from poverty. While this was somewhat true it was not the only thing in life that brought about happiness. Early in my career I made the mistake of making decisions based on what positions might bring the most amount of money. I was highly driven to climb the corporate ladder without taking the time to learn the skills to be successful. I was often challenged by other leaders with much more experience than me. This caused me to work even harder to prove I belonged. Things finally came to a head when I went away on a vacation with my spouse. There I was in a tropical, romantic location and I couldn’t get away from my phone or computer. I spent the entire vacation stressed out and working. My health and relationship was suffering as I was so focused on one goal and that was personal wealth. It was ironic that while my motivation in making money was to achieve a happy life it was that very thing that was making me unhappy.

Upon return from vacation I reached out to a mentor and let her know I was about to have a break down. Upon reflation with her, I realized I was trying to take on everything to achieve status. I was aggressive in my career goals, I was President of my Toastmasters club and was managing my recreational hockey team. I had trouble saying no and it dawned on me that people saw me as someone that could get things done and so were constantly calling on me to help. It was at this point that I made major shift in my life. I resigned as president of my club and manager of my hockey team. I applied for a new position in my organization that would give me more work life balance. Then something amazing happened, after trying for years to get pregnant without success I was with child. Pregnancy forced me so slow down even more and after returning from maternity leave, I continued to set boundaries knowing whatever time I dedicated to another cause was going to take time away from my family.

This new found attitude was actually the medicine I was needing. I became more productive at work as well as more liked. I had found the monetary things no longer mattered. The ironic thing is this shift in my life resulted in good things happening without my having to force the issue any longer. I’ve since moved up and have become a more effective leader yet still maintain a balance so I’m not ever putting my family second. The valuable lesson I learned was to simplify my life to the things that truly bring happiness. It wasn’t easy in the beginning saying no but I’ve learned to set boundaries. My happiness bank is no longer how much money I have, but how much time I have to be with the ones I love. With that I’m able to enjoy things in life I almost never had the chance to. Travel, the outdoors and time with friends. I’ve achieved the riches I’ve always craved and that’s a loving home, family, a good place to work where my gifts are appreciated and a community that I get to help every day. Living this way has allowed me to appreciate the beauty around me and as a result I’m a more effective leader than I’ve ever been because I come to work every day with a fresh and positive attitude. At this point in life I’m midlife and because of the positive changes I’ve made I’m now able to further my life learning by working on my MA in Business leadership. Finding that lifelong balance has allowed me to pursue dreams I never thought possible and I’m sure after completing my MA will be an even more effective leader. I wish for everyone in life to have the ability to seek clarity to what in life really matters. Can you think of what in life you most cherish?

 

Watson, L.E. (1951). Light from Many Lamps. New York: Simon and Schuster

Unit 8, Activity 2 – Fostering a sense of belonging for woman in the workplace

Fostering recognition and a sense of belonging for woman in the workforce will result in a happier more productive environment. So how can this be achieved?

  • Leadership needs to take an active role in providing feedback to employees not engaging in inclusion in the workforce.
  • In severe cases management needs to address gender discrimination, immediately.
  • Woman as well can play a role in changing the environment. For example, while working for a transportations company, we collected toys for disadvantaged children at Christmas. I was asked to be Santa’s helper, and in previous years Santa’s helper was dressed in a red mini-skirt and a low cut tight shirt! When I arrived at the costume store I let the clerk know I preferred to dress as Mrs. Claus. As such I took home the costume and on the first day surprised everyone and started a new tradition that still exists today. Mrs. Claus was such a great hit with the kids and in actuality there were many employees, male and female, that indicated they wanted their kids to come and see Santa but felt uncomfortable with the previous Santa’s helper dressed in an adult costume.
  • Some organizations have set up a woman’s group which fosters mentoring. The group is also a place where woman can discuss challenging experiences in the workplace.
  • Woman need to give back and make themselves available to younger generations. I was very blessed to have strong female mentors. In my point of life I try to do the same in return for the younger generations.
  • Some organizations will target the promotion of females into leadership positions, to help foster inclusion. This can create animosity with male employees feeling they are being disadvantaged. Human Rights exemptions exist, allowing companies to assist disadvantaged employee groups. While this is an option for companies it is equally important for the organization to help educate and inform employees as to why females may be given preference.
  • Pay attention to the employees that once spoke up with ideas and now are silent at meetings. Give them a voice by asking questions and encouraging participation.
  • Create working groups and assign project leads that promote inclusion of all.
  • Foster understanding and empathy as to how a female might feel in a male dominated environment.
  • Discourage an environment that promotes gossip in the workplace. Gossip will only further feed insecurities.
  • Find ways in group meetings to bring females into the discussion and thank them for their opinions.

Perhaps the best way I have found in my organization, in promoting inclusiveness with females, has been to provide a bit of a history lesson. Helping employees to understand the successes of female leadership in First Nations communities, helps foster an understanding in my organization. In my indigenous community, historically we come from a matriarchal society. The idea of chieftainship was only introduced with colonization. The way history is often portrayed is very male centric. The woman were traditionally the leaders in communities and made decisions for the tribe, while the men hunted and gathered. This was the only way people could survive. Furthermore each citizen was recognized for their gifts, fostering inclusion. First Nations lived a relatively peaceful existence, for generations under this leadership model. In my community we have evidence going back as far as 14,000 years ago. Life was balanced with a connection to family and mother earth. Of course disputes happened but historically my community did not undergo, at one single time in its existence, a devastating war. The first war perhaps was the introduction to disease to my community which occurred during colonization. At no other time did we ever experience such loss, under female dominated leadership. So I ask then, if under female leadership a community can live peacefully for over 14,000 years, can not a company also be successful under female leaders?

Unit 8 Activity 1 – Gender and Leadership

In 15.2 case study, (Northouse, 2016, p. 413) Lori Bradley is an experienced probation officer working in a male dominated field. In the example, her male counterparts are engaging in a non-work discussion, exclusive of her. When she inputs her suggestions on solving a work related problem, she is ignored. Later, a male co-worker makes the same suggestion and is praised for his idea. Lori raises the point that she initially brought the idea to the table, however she is then accused of not being a team player.

I chose this example as it resonated with me, having worked in a predominantly male workforce while working at a local transportation company. In the 1990’s, at this particular organization, the workforce was 90% male and only 10% female. Working in a leadership role, these numbers were drastically less, making the situation even more challenging. Navigating through the labyrinth as a female leader had its challenges, however I can look back now that there were many lessons learned that have prepared me for today’s workforce. So how does a female working in a leadership role today embrace the challenge?

  1. Being aware of the organizations culture is important and as a female, it’s important to realize that change can take time. If change is aggressive, it may result in feelings of losing control. This feeling of losing control often leads to push back and an unwillingness to move forward in a positive direction. Life for a female leader in this case, will likely become incredibly challenging if not impossible.
  2. It’s important to pick your battles and know when to speak up. In the example mentioned above, Lori pointed out that she raised the same point as her male counterpart, earlier in the conversation. While frustrating as it may be, this is not the time to speak up and in this situation further empowered her male counterparts.
  3. Change in organizations often happen from the top down. Reputable companies will be concerned about gender discrimination and will introduce policies to support equality. Have faith that it takes time for leadership messages to reach the frontline. Find mentors with other female leaders that have gone through gender discrimination and utilize them to consult on best practices in handling various situations.
  4. Instead of being a martyr and pointing out others mistakes, find positive solutions toward changing organizational culture. For example, utilize Human Resource departments to suggest ways to introduce organizational change, such as suggesting formal mentorship program or organizational courses that will help to educate other managers or leaders.
  5. As tempting as it may be to want to retaliate, it’s important to maintain maturity and confidence as a female and not respond to negative situations where gender inequality exists. By taking the higher road, it will further demonstrate to the leadership that one is actually prepared to take on a higher leadership role.
  6. Know that you will have enemies that will see you as a threat. As a female while as unfair as it may be, you will be required to take on more work and be held to a higher standard in a male dominated company. Become an expert in your area, get along with others and act always in a professional manner. Regardless if your career takes off in any organization, these are skills that will be required as one climbs up the corporate ladder.
  7. A little understanding goes a long way. Many male leaders in the workplace are confused and don’t understand why there may be a focus on gender equality. It’s also not fair to suggest that all males are discriminatory towards female leaders. Some male leaders may have equally experienced discrimination and or felt uncomfortable in a male centric organization. Others may also require more education which eventually leads to understanding. Woman and men need to work together to create change. Creating an “us against them” will not result in a positive outcome for anyone.
  8. There are boundaries as to how much tolerance a female leader should take. It’s important to know if the company is headed in a direction of change. If not, it may be necessary to move on to another company, as frustrating as that may sound. Also if there is discrimination, as defined under the Human Rights code, it is important to speak up. Most companies have policies on how they will respond to Human Rights complaints and the Human Resources department are often a great resource.

What are some other ways that a leader might also embrace the challenge?

Northouse, P. G. (2016). Leadership: Theory and practice, seventh Edition. Thousand Oaks, CA: Sage Publications. ISBN 971452203409 ** Chapter 13 Leadership Ethics**