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What I have learned from this course and one related quote that is meaningful to me…
I am grateful for the opportunity to have been a part of this course. I have walked away a different person than when I started. I have learned how to become a better learner, a better listener and a better human being. At the start of this course, as we read Northouse (2019), I identified myself as having more of the traits of transformational leadership than servant leadership, however, due to my awareness of what I am still lacking, I am working on combining the two. One area in particular that I need to work on when it comes to servant leadership is helping other adults and colleagues grow and succeed. Doing this with my students is second nature to me, however, I need to continue this practice outside of the four walls of the classroom and bring it into all areas. Another area that I am going to focus on more when it comes to servant leadership is creating value for the community. I want to consciously give back.
A quote that affected me profoundly both professionally and personally comes from Mary Pickford in Watson’s (1988) Light From Many Lamps.
Today is a new day. You will get out of it just what you put into it. If you have made mistakes, even serious mistakes, there is always another chance for you. And supposing you have tried and failed again and again, you may have a fresh start any moment you choose, for this thing that we call “failure” is not the falling down, but the staying down. ~ Mary Pickford
Watson (1988, p.158)
I think it is so important to acknowledge that as human beings we all make mistakes and we will all fall down at some point. None of us are immune to mistakes. Failure is not as Mary Pickford says, falling down, nor making mistakes. I love that we all have the opportunity for a fresh start, despite the number of times we have tried. As a parent of teenage son who is struggling to find his way and who has had a rough year, I appreciate this advice. I am grateful for forgiveness, for second chances, for fresh starts and for unconditional love. I am grateful for Jesus and our Heavenly Father who set this example for us.
What 2 course learnings have impacted my practice…
I have developed an even bigger appreciation for the importance of taking the time to meaningfully listen to others. What I looked forward to the most in this course was reading the Light From Many Lamps posts as they shared a special insight into each person’s experience and leadership journey. These posts in particular enabled us to learn from each other’s perspectives and to see things from a new lens. I loved the willingness to share and the vulnerability that brought us closer together as a group. I felt inspired, motivated, encouraged and comforted. Not only were we learning from each other, but we were also learning from those who have walked the path before us. William Ogdon, Frederic Loomis, Robert Browning, Abraham Lincoln, William Osler, Franklin Roosevelt, Thomas Carlyle, Mary Pickford, Shakespeare, Ralph Waldo Emerson, Confucius … the list goes on. I found myself sharing these stories with my co-workers, my students and my own children. By interweaving them into my daily life, they opened the door for further discussion and contemplation and discovery. This is something that I wish to continue, to seek out inspirational readings and to share them with others so that I can continue to learn and grow. All too often, we try and hide our struggles and only publically share our successes because we worry about appearing weak or incompetent in front of our peers … however, it is through these struggles that we all grow the most.
The biggest learning outcome I have had from this course is understanding better the important role that servant leaders have in not just helping to create a vision and culture but in sustaining it. I know that I still have a long way to go when it comes to being a better transformational servant leader, however, I feel much better equipped in my understanding of what the role entails. I try very hard to intentionally practice being sensitive to others well being, to help conceptualize a sustainable vision, to have humility, to put others first before myself, to always behave ethically (how would I feel if this was on the 6 o’clock news), to make decisions that benefit the whole community (not just myself or my students), and to empower others.
References
Northouse, P.G. (2019). Leadership: Theory & Practice (8th ed). Sage Publications.
Watson, L.E. (1988). Light from Many Lamps, (1st Fireside Edition). New York, NY: Simon & Schuster, Inc.