Journey of Self Discovery

Category: Unit 10

Response to Charlie Mable Unit 10

https://create.twu.ca/charliemable/2018/11/22/unit-10-bringing-it-all-together/

I enjoyed your last paragraph of your post where you discuss what it takes and all the steps involved between pharmaceutical research and products being approved for human consumption in Canada. Your question at the end was psychologically fascinating to me because this course has awakened my need for credible factual information. I have always been (for the most part) a naturally accepting individual and I have turned into this skeptical, question everything ‘researcher’.  Is anything ever fully right or true?  I was genuinely shocked by Ben Goldacre’s talk and some of the revelations he shared about research reports and the actual credibility of people who report and share incorrect information to large populations of people as being factual. It’s scary!

My role as a teacher enables me to be viewed as a credible source of information to my students. I feel a huge responsibility to ensure that what I share is free from bias and factual. I want them to question, to be skeptical and to learn what constitutes a reliable source.

Thank you for causing me to reflect so deeply about this!

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Unit 10

Part A

According to Strong (2018) in the Unit 10 notes and Goldacre (2011) in his TEDTalk on Battling Bad Science; in order to determine the credibility of an article and the research findings presented I need to examine the article carefully and check for/be aware of the following:

  • Check to see if the article  is scholarly and has been peer reviewed
  • Research the journal’s reputation and look at what “the requirements for document submission” (Strong, 2018) are.
  • Check the author’s reputation. As Goldacre (2011) points out, not every Certificate or Degree comes with the same academic rigour behind it.
  • Check to see if the research has been funded by sources that, “meet or exceed those for prestigious journals” (Strong, 2018).  Strong (2018) provides a list of sources in Unit 10 notes that meet these requirements.
  • Ensure that the data being collected is transferable to a larger population and generalization of results (Strong, 2018).
  • Both Goldacre (2011) and Strong (2018) discuss research bias and the importance of researchers not having any personal bias towards favourable results. Examples shared by Goldacre (2011) referenced pharmaceutical company studies that were biased towards that companies products.
  • If a study to cannot be replicated by someone else, the results and methods have been significantly skewed.

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Part B

I think that evidence-based decision making is important for the Transformational Servant leader because Transformational Servant leaders “create trust in their organizations by making their own positions clearly known and then standing by them” (Northouse, 2019, p. 175).  In order to make trustworthy decisions, the decisions need to backed by evidence. They also need to help create a shared vision, be able to be a role model,  and enable others to act (Northouse, 2019) and to do so effectively, leaders need to ensure that they have credible and ethically produced evidence to draw upon.  Evidence based learning must be present in a Transformational Servant Leader in order to help members of their team grow and succeed, to conceptualize a plan, to promote healing and reconciliation and to create value for the community (Northouse, 2019).

As part of a District team that is helping to create and implement new courses that correlate with the redesigned curriculum, it is imperative that I refer to and use scholarly evidence to back up suggestions that I share with the team. A recent example is my Administrator has asked for my assistance in helping him prepare for a presentation that he will have to make to the District Leadership Team next week to address some concerns around moving a certain course from Grade 12 to Grade 11. I need to prepare evidence for him to present that will help demonstrate that keeping the course in Grade 12 is what’s best for students (not what may be best for timetabling or course funding). As someone who is striving to help students grow and succeed, I need to conceptualize an ethical plan that creates value for the school community that centres entirely around making evidenced based decisions.

 

References

Goldacre, B. (2011). Battling bad science. Retrieved from https://www.ted.com/talks/ben_goldacre_battling_bad_science

Northouse, P.G. (2019). Leadership: Theory & Practice (8th ed). Sage Publications.

Strong, H. (2018). Unit 10 Learning Activities. Retrieved from https://create.twu.ca/ldrs591/unit-10-learning-activities/

Response to Layla’s Leadership Story

https://create.twu.ca/layla11/2018/07/05/my-leadership-story/

I really enjoyed listening to your leadership story Layla and learning more about how your relationship with your father has shaped you into becoming the leader you are today.

I really appreciated your  honest reflections and how you were able to recognize the pros and cons of your dad’s leadership traits and how you have made changes to your own life as a result. I also appreciated your analogy of the frogs in the well and when we have the courage to take a leap into the unknown, we are able to expand our knowledge and truly experience the wonders this life has to offer.

I loved hearing about how you have shared the readings from Light From Many Lamps with your son and husband. I too have shared these powerful stories with my own family and it has also brought us closer together. When we invite others in to share our experiences, we continue to create true authentic and sustainable connections.

Your words were encouraging and inspiring! Your advice about not changing who we are in order to belong and to remember that there are always two sides to every story was a great reminder to be authentic and to own our truths.

I have enjoyed learning from you on this journey and feel blessed to have had the opportunity to listen and learn from your leadership story. Thank you again for sharing.

Response to Bantu’s Leadership Story

https://create.twu.ca/b4ntu/2018/07/05/my-leadership-story/

Thank you for sharing your leadership story Bantu. I was very moved by your dedication and determination to help others by educating them about the importance of dental hygiene.  It was very humbling to listen and hear about those who cannot afford such basic items like toothpaste and toothbrushes that the majority of us take for granted. I think your message of reaching out to those less fortunate is so important and that we all have a responsibility to help those in need.  Change starts with education and by sharing stories. The more people who become aware of these problems, the more we can make a difference.

I also had the opportunity to listen to a young 14 year old student give a Dragon’s Den presentation at the end of the year about a  charity she was heading up.  She is originally from India and when she came to Canada she was determined to continue to give back to the young women in  her country by providing them with access to backpacks filled with toiletries and feminine hygiene products.  I was very moved by her dedication to support other young women and her drive to gain financial backing from corporations in order to continue her cause.  Both of your stories brought to light the needs and plights that others suffer from on a daily basis around the world and for us all to take responsibility to step up to care for our brothers and sisters.

Your kindness, genuine caring and generosity will enable you to be a wonderful dentist! Your patients will be lucky to have someone like you looking after their needs.

 

 

Response to Achsahs-Springs Post Unit 10 Activity 1

https://create.twu.ca/achsahs-springs/2018/07/04/drawing-to-a-close-unit-10-learning-activity-1/

I have thoroughly enjoyed reading all of your blog posts throughout this course! Sometimes we go through life not knowing how our words and actions silently impact others and I wanted to take a moment to let you know that your genuine and honest reflections have inspired me and also comforted me on this journey.   I feel blessed to have had the opportunity to get to know you a little bit better through your posts and feel like we would have a lot to talk about over a cup of coffee!

I especially connected with your comment about becoming more intentional about supporting women in your workplace. I too, was stunned to realize my own unconscious biases in this area and after interviewing 3 different women in my school district, I began to realize just how much of a glass ceiling still exists today.  There is much to be done in this area. I recently completed reading Sheryl Sandberg’s book called Lean In and highly recommend it. She openly and honestly discusses gender bias and how women sometimes unknowingly sabotage themselves by feeling guilty or unworthy to sit at the conference room table. I could relate to many points in her book and feel like I am more aware than ever of blatant gender bias that I had overlooked due to ignorance. Here is a link to a compelling article by Forbes online that discusses 10 Things that Sheryl Sandberg gets right in her book.   I want to be more cognizant of my actions moving forward. I also want to help support and build other women in my organization up and help them receive the recognition their contributions deserve that are often overlooked.  For the sake of my children, my students and our future generations, I really want to make a difference. Recognizing my own biases and my own self imposed restrictions was definitely a start in the right direction and I am excited about the possibilities to come!

 

References

Adams, S. (2013, Mar. 4). 10 Things Sheryl Sandberg gets exactly right in “Lean In”. Retrieved from https://www.forbes.com/sites/susanadams/2013/03/04/10-things-sheryl-sandberg-gets-exactly-right-in-lean-in/#741607947ada

Sandberg, S. (2013). Lean in: Women, work, and the will to lead (First edition.). New York: Alfred A. Knopf.

 

Unit 10 Activities

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What I have learned from this course and one related quote that is meaningful to me…

I am grateful for the opportunity to have been a part of this course. I have walked away a different person than when I started. I have learned how to become a better learner, a better listener and a better human being.  At the start of this course, as we read Northouse (2019), I identified myself as having more of the traits of transformational leadership than servant leadership, however, due to my awareness of what I am still lacking, I am working on combining the two. One area in particular that I need to work on when it comes to servant leadership is helping other adults and colleagues grow and succeed.  Doing this with my students is second nature to me, however, I need to continue this practice outside of the four walls of the classroom and bring it into all areas.  Another area that I am going to focus on more when it comes to servant leadership is creating value for the community. I want to consciously give back.

A quote that affected me profoundly both professionally and personally comes from Mary Pickford in Watson’s (1988) Light From Many Lamps. 

Today is a new day. You will get out of it just what you put into it. If you have made mistakes, even serious mistakes, there is always another chance for you. And supposing you have tried and failed again and again,  you may have a fresh start any moment you choose, for this thing that we call “failure” is not the falling down, but the staying down. ~ Mary Pickford

Watson (1988, p.158)

I think it is so important to acknowledge that as human beings we all make mistakes and we will all fall down at some point. None of us are immune to mistakes. Failure is not as Mary Pickford says, falling down, nor making mistakes. I love that we all have the opportunity for a fresh start, despite the number of times we have tried. As a parent of teenage son who is struggling to find his way and who has had a rough year, I appreciate this advice. I am grateful for forgiveness, for second chances, for fresh starts and for unconditional love. I am grateful for Jesus and our Heavenly Father who set this example for us.

What 2 course learnings have impacted my practice…

I have developed an even bigger appreciation for the importance of taking the time to meaningfully listen to others. What I looked forward to the most in this course was reading the Light From Many Lamps posts as they shared a special insight into each person’s experience and leadership journey.  These posts in particular enabled us to learn from each other’s perspectives and to see things from a new lens. I loved the willingness to share and the vulnerability that brought us closer together as a group.  I felt inspired, motivated, encouraged and comforted. Not only were we learning from each other, but we were also learning from those who have walked the path before us.  William Ogdon, Frederic Loomis, Robert Browning, Abraham Lincoln, William Osler, Franklin Roosevelt, Thomas Carlyle, Mary Pickford, Shakespeare, Ralph Waldo Emerson, Confucius  … the list goes on.  I found myself sharing these stories with my co-workers, my students and my own children.  By interweaving them into my daily life, they opened the door for further discussion and contemplation and discovery. This is something that I wish to continue, to seek out inspirational readings and to share them with others so that I can continue to learn and grow. All too often, we try and hide our struggles and only publically share our successes because we worry about appearing weak or incompetent in front of our peers  … however, it is through these struggles that we all grow the most.

The biggest learning outcome I have had from this course is understanding better the important role that servant leaders have in not just helping to create a vision and culture but in sustaining it.  I know that I still have a long way to go when it comes to being a better transformational servant leader, however, I feel much better equipped in my understanding of what the role entails.  I try very hard to intentionally practice being sensitive to others well being, to help conceptualize a sustainable vision, to have humility, to put others first before myself, to always behave ethically (how would I feel if this was on the 6 o’clock news), to make decisions that benefit the whole community (not just myself or my students), and to empower others.

 

References

Northouse, P.G. (2019). Leadership: Theory & Practice (8th ed). Sage Publications.

Watson, L.E. (1988). Light from Many Lamps, (1st Fireside Edition). New York, NY: Simon & Schuster, Inc.

 

Women in Leadership – Interviews with 3 Different School Administrators

Please note that for this assignment, I separately interviewed 3 women from my school district who are all at different points on their leadership journeys. Only one of them has agreed to have her name and title published in this blog. I have received permission from our Professor to leave the other women as anonymous.  I have included  excerpts from all of their answers as part of this blog post because I believe that what they have to share is extremely valuable.

It is interesting to note that there are far more females than males in the teaching profession in our district, yet, males by far outnumber females in district leadership roles. This is especially noticeable at the high school level. Why is this? Do males predominately enter education to become administrators and pursue leadership roles or is it just a fluke?

The first woman I interviewed was at the beginning of her journey as a school administrator in the role of Principal of an elementary school.  The second woman I interviewed is a retired Principal and the third woman is Dawne Tomlinson, Director of Instruction and former proud high school principal.

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Dawne’s story is extremely interesting, as she was the very first woman principal of  the very first high school built in our District. The hallways are lined with old portraits of moustached male principals and at the end of the row is a framed picture of a smiling and beaming Dawne.  Another male principal replaced her when she moved into her position at the school board office last year.

When asked what was the most challenging aspect of being a female leader the answers were synonymous with each other.  Every single woman that I interviewed talked about the difficulty of finding balance between home life and work. They each mentioned that everyone always talks about the need for ‘balance’ but ‘balance’ is actually a myth.  Each one of them mentioned the huge amount of guilt that they felt because they were unable to give 100% and ended up not doing anything perfectly.  If they gave 100% to work, then they were missing out on dinner at home or their child’s recital. If they gave 100% at home, then they were unable to answer that angry parent’s email or deal with the massive amount of paperwork that was piling up on their desks. They felt it was very difficult to do anything as well as they would have liked.  They mentioned that many of their male counterparts went out for drinks on Friday nights while they were busy rushing to Costco to get their groceries and racing home to make dinner for their families.  They all agreed that it is hard because they all want to do a good job in a world that is dominated by men. At the end of the day, the woman is still the primary caregiver of kids and women are trying to work in a world that has more expectations of your time.  The favourite meeting time for male principals is breakfast which is really hard when you have little kids. We are not yet at a place where we recognize that there isn’t an even division of responsibilities. So, women live their lives in guilt because they aren’t fully present for anyone or anything. They are pulled in multiple directions that their male counterparts don’t experience to the same extent.

Some excerpts from the interviews when asked about the biggest challenge they face or faced:

  • “It’s daunting to walk into a room filled with male principals and I have had to learn to walk in with confidence knowing that I have the knowledge to do the job. I stayed quiet a lot in the beginning and felt that I had to earn my seat at the table. I only spoke when I felt it was essential and when I had something necessary to add to the conversation.”
  • “My first leadership role was department head in a high school. At that time, the challenge I had was of not being taken seriously. I found that I was under greater scrutiny to prove myself than my male counterparts. My age at that time was also a challenge, as the more experienced female department heads were also skeptical. It did not help that I was good looking. The assumption right away was that I did not have the intelligence to be in leadership. I also faced jealousy from other women. Snide comments, sarcastic references and subtle and unsubtle comments were not unusual. I developed a thick skin fast.”
  • “A lot of times, dads have come in to speak to the principal and they look right past me and automatically assume my male vice-principal is the principal.”
  • “When I became principal of an elementary school, I found I really had to act the role. If I knew it was an important parent meeting, I dressed the part. Power suit and exuded confidence. The fathers of students would be skeptical. Handshakes were deliberately firm. On one occasion when I had made an unpopular decision, the dad posted on Facebook a rude sexual comment. I think women leaders are more prone to receive insults like that.”

When asked what they do to help meet or deal with the challenges they face…

  • “Current role feels less guilty as my kids are older so I have more flexibility in my job. Same amount of hours but less urgencies to deal with. I try to be more mindful of delegating and trying to use the team more instead of just single handedly trying to do it all.”
  • “Have created a G-Summit for Girls in Secondary which is a support group for women in leadership roles within secondary schools. It’s not about the role of women in leadership but about supporting women who are in leadership roles surrounded by males. It’s fun! We have a lot of laughs!”
  • “It’s important for females to support each other and stop being competitive. I encourage others to live their truths and to praise each other!”
  • “Hired a housekeeper and put structures in place so that I can be home for dinner each night. I’ve also dedicated time to spend with my husband.”

When asked what advice they would have for women in leadership…

  • “Women need to be present, to take chances and step out of their comfort zones.  You need to show up or else you risk missing out. Relationships are huge! Be willing to ‘lean in’ and sit at the table.”
  • “Focus on the gifts that you bring to the table because they will become noticed. Build relationships with males. Be yourself. Don’t allow yourself to be branded as a woman. Leave the labelling behind you! Speak up when you have an important idea to share. Don’t share just for the sake of talking. Don’t monopolize the conversation. The people who stand out and have been seen, have been really thoughtful and speak only when they have something to ADD to the conversation.”
  • “Gender imbalances can happen in cycles. People gravitate to people who are like them. Men in positions of hiring leaders gravitate towards people who are like them. I don’t think it’s intentional who you gravitate towards. It’s hard for a system to see that and to notice a gender imbalance. Balance brings better dynamics to a group of leaders.”
  • “Street cred is so important. If you can take on the tough challenges and be successful you get street credit with the males. People will respect the work that you have done.”
  • “My advice is to go into leadership for the right reasons. If it is because you want others to think highly of you, forget it. If it is because you know you can make a positive contribution, you might be on the right track. It’s not the money! I would encourage women to think hard and not go into this lightly. It will affect your family, your health and your mental well-being.”
  • “I think the glass ceiling is still there. One only has to look at how many women there are in positions of power and politics. And there is the question, ‘Is it worth it?’ ‘Why do we do it?'”

I greatly admire each of these women that I interviewed. I appreciated their candid honesty about the challenges of their roles and their experiences along the way. Each of these women are strong and courageous in their trail blazing.  As a school district, we are expected to promote inclusivity and to celebrate diversity and differences. While, I honestly don’t think it’s intentional on the part of the males in educational leadership that females tend to face far different challenges than their male counterparts, there is still some work to be done around gender inclusivity.  The interviews raised a lot of questions for me and left me pondering. While the women were willing to be interviewed and were very gracious about sharing their stories, they still requested to remain anonymous. How can we start to create change if we aren’t transparent? There is obviously a need for support, and women are supporting women through the creation of the G Summit Group, but how can we also get men on board too?  One of the women that I interviewed shared that someone once asked her “How does your husband feel about you taking on this role?”  She shared that she couldn’t honestly imagine a man being asked the same question. Why do people continue to ask these kinds of gender inequality questions?  Breaking new ground is never easy and is tough work, even for those who have been at it awhile.  I was left with this for now… “I went into administration because I knew I could contribute in a positive manner and influence adults to look at education in a way that would benefit children. I try to stay positive but I also look for affirmation that I am on the right track. Most of the time I just keep going and ignore the folks who are negative. Often it is their issue.”

 

 

Grow old with me! The best is yet to be…

I have a ‘to do’ list sitting on my desk. One of the items waiting to be completed is writing my will. It is a task that gives me great anxiety and fills me with swirling pools of dread in the pit of my stomach. I know that it is a mandatory and essential task, however, unlike other tasks that give me great pleasure to check off, it is a reminder that time is uncertain and that there is only one eventual outcome for all of us.  I never used to worry about time, and now lately, as a single parent, I pray for God to spare me for the sake of my children and those that rely on me. I pray for more time so that I can become a better servant and so that I can accomplish His plan for me.

Robert Browning www.thefamouspeople.com

Robert Browning in the midst of despair and grief and while picking up the pieces of his fragmented life after the death of his wife, turned to the teachings and sayings of Rabbi ben Ezra for inspiration and comfort.  From this experience, a desire grew to help young people just starting out on their life paths,  and so he wrote a poem dedicated to Rabbi ben Ezra’s teachings.

Rabbi ben Ezra stated that, “A man’s value is not measured by the years he has lived, or even the work he has done. A man’s value is measured by the character he has molded” (Watson, 1988, p. 271-272).  If you were to die tomorrow, what would you wish to be remembered for? How would people describe your character? My dad taught me that the most important value is having integrity. He would often tell us that material items meant nothing. You can’t take them with you when you die and they don’t reflect who you are as a person.  Watson (1988) shares that, “in the rush and hurry of our overly-ambitious lives, so many of us have lost our sense of perspective. We place too much stress on material things, and on personal achievement” (p.272).  As my Dad would point out to me, integrity, on the other hand is priceless as your reputation in this life and as you pass over into the next.  I want my actions and my words to be reflective of a character that my children and their children would continue to be proud of long after I have departed.

Robert Browning through the teachings of Rabbi ben Ezra encouraged us to not dread death and the inevitable passing of time. “Approach the twilight of life with joy and hope. Approach the last of life with eagerness, not gloom. For the last of life is the best of life. Trust God and be not afraid” (Watson, 1988, p.272).  Robert Browning in his 1864 poem “Rabbi ben Ezra” states:

“Grow old along with me!

The best is yet to be,

The last of life, for which the first was made;

Our times are in his hands

Who saith, “A whole I planned,

Youth shows but half; trust God; see all, nor be afraid!”

(Watson, 1988, p.273)

The words “trust God; see all, nor be afraid” jumped off the page at me and I immediately felt God’s comfort and warmth. There is NO need for me to fear the passage of time, or what is to come. I need to trust in God and have faith in His perfect plan. Browning makes this clear when he states, “Perfect I call thy plan; thanks that I was a man! Maker, remake, complete – I trust what thou shalt do!” (Watson, 1988, p. 274).   The Rabbi  also sums this up when he said;

Grow old along with me. Live my kind of life, putting your faith and trust in God. Then you will be serene and happy in your old age; you will not be afraid of the end.

(Watson, 1988, p. 275)

 

I was grateful for this much needed reminder. My “to do” task no longer seems daunting or something to be feared. This reading has affirmed for me that I need to continue to put my trust and faith in God and in His perfect plan for me. Once I do this, I know that sereneness and happiness will fulfill me and that I will have no reason to be afraid of the end.

 

References

Watson, L.E. (1988). Light from Many Lamps, (1st Fireside Edition). New York, NY: Simon & Schuster, Inc.

 

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