A Walk in the Woods

Journey of Self Discovery

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Response to Leadership Prof – Ethical Standards in Teaching Profession

Hi Leadership Prof,

Thank you for your comments and questions regarding ethical standards and monitoring in the teaching profession.

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When I attended teacher’s college in Ontario, each course that I took reinforced the importance of teachers having integrity and maintaining the standards of the profession. We were taught to adhere to the four ethical standards for the teaching profession as prepared by the Ontario College of Teachers which are care, respect, integrity and trust. More information on these standards can be found at this link

The British Columbia Teachers Federation also has a code of Ethics for teachers. If any of the following ethical items are breached or in question, there are steps and procedures outlined in the members guide.

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When teachers are hired by the school district, both the teachers’ union and the school district work closely to ensure that teachers are aware of the ethical standards and the potential consequences of behaviour that goes those standards. New teachers attend workshops and are paired with a mentor. Teachers do not receive a yearly evaluation on these standards. A teacher is expected to follow these standards whether school is in session or not. If an issue arises, there are steps and protocol in place for administrators, teachers, the union and the district to follow.

Some school administrators discuss some of these ethical standards at the first staff meeting of the year, (especially if there is a large number of new teachers on staff) but generally, it is expected that teachers are already familiar with them.

 

Ethical & Moral Implications of Leadership Behaviour – Unit 7:1

If leaders do not possess moral or ethical values, the implications of their behaviour would have a profound negative affect on the entire membership of their organizations as well as those that they  are supposed to serve.  Donald Trump and his continual spate of lies and false accusations comes to mind as an example. His lack of transparency and what appears to be a complete absence of basic moral or ethical values not only affects the entire United States but also relationships with other nations as witnessed by his latest behaviour on the world wide stage at the recent G7 Summit.

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The implications of Trump’s behaviour are far reaching and do a great disservice not just for his country but for humanity as a whole.  There are many examples in history of unethical and immoral leaders and of the devastating and far reaching impact they had not just on their own people but on the entire world.

Both  Aviolio and Gardner (2005) in their article “Authentic leadership development: Getting to the root of positive forms of leadership” and Jane Van Buren in the video “What is Ethical Leadership” (March 29, 2013) touch upon the importance of leaders demonstrating transparency of their values in their communication as well as their actions.  When leaders uphold the shared values of an organization they help to set the cultural tone and model expectations of shared behaviour. Aviolio and Gardner(2005) reference Avolio, Luthans, and Walumbwa (2004, p.4) when they define authentic leaders as “those who are deeply aware of how they think and behave and are perceived by others as being aware of their own and others’ values/moral perspectives, knowledge, and strengths; aware of the context in which they operate; and who are confident, hopeful, optimistic, resilient, and of high moral character” (Aviolio and Gardner, 2005, p. 321).   Aviolio and Gardner (2005) also refer to the importance of leaders being able to self-regulate and “align their values with their intentions and actions” (p. 325).   Self-regulation is the ability of a leader to act/behave in the long term, best interest of the organization while maintaining and adhering to a consistent set of values. When leaders positively model self-regulation, and adhere to a set of values they have a more authentic influence over their followers.

I can help my organization grow and flourish by adhering to the following goals :

  • Be a visible role model 
    • Just like the example in the video, when leaders wash their own cups, actions are shown to speak louder than words.  People see this action and are more likely to follow suit. I can ensure that I am acting and modelling the kind of leadership behaviours that would be in the best interest of students. For example, the simple act (like the cup washing) of standing at my door each morning and greeting students by name and making them feel welcome.
    • I can be a visible role model not just within my school but also my community. Teachers are never really off duty and often run into students and families during weekends and holidays. I need to ensure that my behaviour is always becoming my profession and the ethical and moral values that I stand for.
  • Communicate ethical expectations & institutionalize an ethical culture
    • In our department meetings and in the classroom, we can discuss our values and what our ethical expectations are as a department team (and whole school) so that we can hold ourselves accountable individually and as a team. It is important for everyone to be aware of these expectations so that everyone has a shared goal and vision of the kind of school culture that we want to build together.
    • Continue to share our values and school mission statement with all staff, students and parents across the entire district.
    • When our values and expectations are shared and displayed in classrooms and around the school, there is less room for misunderstandings or miscommunication.
  • Be Transparent
    • Just like it’s mentioned in the video, I need to continually ask… “Is it fair? Is it honest? Is this in the best interests of students? How would I feel if this ended up on the evening news?”
    • Consistently provide access to information, resources, support and equal opportunities  for all students, parents and staff members
    • Be honest, open and respectful in my relationships and dealings with all members of my school and community.
  • Self Regulate
    • I would like to actively practice self-regulation and be more aware of my emotions, my physical responses and my social responsibilities so that I can ensure that I am able make sustainable decisions that have the best interests of students at heart.
  • Learn more about ethical training & how the profession provides protective mechanisms to maintain ethical behaviour
    • For example, the Teachers’ Association adheres to strong ethics in the teaching profession and provides training sessions for new teachers. Reminders are also sent out to all teachers on a regular basis of the necessity to maintain the ethical standards of the profession. If a teacher is in need of more than a reminder, there are steps and procedures in place to ensure additional training is provided or in severe cases, teachers can lose their professional license.  It is important to maintain the integrity of the profession and therefore ethical behaviour is held to high esteem.  How can I help model this and be a mentor to new teachers in the profession?
    • Training courses are also available for new administrators in our school district on the ethical and moral expectations of Vice-Principals and Principals.  One such document outlining the expectations is the BCPVPA Leadership Standards for Principals and Vice-Principals in British Columbia (2016). I would like to familiarize myself more with these standards.

I would like to be a leader and a role model who consciously self-regulates and who models transparent ethical morals and values on a daily basis through both my words and my actions.  I want to be aware of my actions and the affect my choices have on the greater good of our school community and those that I am supposed to serve.

 

References:

Aviolio, B, Gardner W. (2005). Authentic leadership development: Getting to the root of positive forms of leadership. Leadership Quarterly, 16, 315-338.

BCPVPA Standards Committee. (2016). Leadership Standards for Principals and Vice-Principals in British Columbia. Retrieved from  http://www.bcpvpa.bc.ca/downloads/pdf/Standardsfinal.pdf

Van Buren, J. (2013, March 29). What is Ethical Leadership? Retrieved from https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ks2QGoIq5nA

 

 

Employee Development Plan

There has been a lot of discussion in the past few years regarding the promotion and development of a people-technology hybrid model for education.  It is an exciting time as the possibilities are endless and also a challenging time due to budget, resource and support limitations that vary according to schools and school districts.

Technology can be used in education to promote organizational citizenship behaviour. Each year, our school district has all students in Grades 4, 7, 10 and 12 as well as staff take an anonymous online Satisfaction Survey. It is a province wide customer satisfaction type questionnaire that was developed to help meet the needs of students, staff and parents.  A link to the types of questions asked can be found here on the BC Ministry of Education website. There is also an online survey that students complete each year entitled Tell Them From Me. This anonymous survey is conducted in grades 8-12 and collects information that individual schools can then use to determine better ways to teach and reach kids based on the input collected. It enables student voices to be heard and focuses on the assessment of intellectual, social, emotional learning of students.  Here is a video link explaining how the results from Tell Them From Me can be immediately applicable. The goal is to recognize and acknowledge the needs of students and to make changes that will enable students to be more engaged in their learning which in turn leads to a higher rate of high school completion.  These types of surveys are extremely eye-opening and enable self-reflection to take place. For example, last year, we discovered that there were a high majority of Grade 8 students who felt that they didn’t have an adult in the building that they could turn to for help. We made it our mission to put initiatives in place that would ensure that each student had a special connection to at least one adult.  The difficulty with these types of surveys are that not every school has access to technology that would allow for students to complete them during school time (which is how they are conducted).  At my school alone, we have over 1200 students and only 120 laptops available at a time so it makes it rather difficult to smoothly coordinate this whole school initiative while balancing  teaching schedules and blocks.  Another pressing issue, is the lack of consistent WiFi service in  schools as well. When large groups of people are on at one time, the service usually crashes or becomes significantly slower resulting in frustration from both the teachers and the students.

We had an initiative in our District a few years ago, where there were Digital Literacy coaches available in each school to help mentor other teachers in the application of technology within the classroom to help co-create lessons that would inspire wonder and innovation in our students beyond paper/pencil tasks.  I was one of those coaches and worked out of the School Board Office helping to promote digital literacy through whole school and small group workshops as well as one on one sessions.  We needed ways to help keep parents informed and ways for students to be able to access learning materials outside of class time. I helped teachers create their own websites, create flipped classrooms (where the  lesson is taught online and the work done in the classroom) and find innovative ways to share  student learning through programs like KidBlog or FreshGrade (a learning portfolio platform accessible by students, teachers and parents).  As digital literacy coaches, we wanted to avoid teachers simply replacing paper tasks with digital ones that basically did the same thing. Our goal was to help teachers move beyond the basics and find new ways for students to share their individual unique learning and focus on student strengths. We referred to the SAMR model developed by Dr. Ruben R. Puentedura frequently as a way to help explain how to create a hybrid model of technology and education for teachers.  Here is a link to a great video clip explaining the model and how it applies to the classroom.  Basically there are 4 levels as illustrated below with the first being simply a substitute activity leading all the way to an activity that would have originally been impossible to do without technology.  For example, the first two levels of the SAMR model enhance teaching but the final level transforms it and enables students to collaborate beyond the 4 walls of the classroom and have access to a global community for feedback and self-reflection.

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Our District has moved away from having Digital Literacy Coaches within schools to having two technology support mentors who work with teachers who are interested in providing opportunities for students to learn coding and robotics within the classroom.  Teachers can apply for grants each year to receive iPads, GoPros, mini robots and other tech gadgets.  Teachers are also supplied with one tech device for themselves to use within the classroom (an iPad or a laptop) and each teacher was asked this year to define their teaching style and how they use the device provided to support student learning.

Some ways in which my school district  provides innovation in a Service Oriented Culture is by offering Microsoft Office for free to all of our students.  Students can upload this program on up to 6 different personal devices and it will still be accessible to them after they graduate. We used to use Google Classroom to enable students to collaborate online, however, due to Google servers being located in places other than Canada, we wanted to ensure that our students privacy was protected under Canadian laws and switched to Microsoft Office.  By providing students with free access to Microsoft Office, student learning can take place both inside and outside school hours and on personal devices that are convenient for students to use. We used Microsoft Office forms  at our school this year with our Grade 9’s to conduct student surveys to better improve courses like Career Education that have recently become embedded and to promote student engagement in their learning. We also use it to create quick surveys for staff that allow for immediate responses. We also use apps like Remind to keep parents and students informed of upcoming events and assignments for individual classes. We utilize social media such as Instagram to post whole school messages that will make it more likely for high school students to see. Teachers can access lesson ideas and build their professional learning community through forums such as Pinterest, Twitter and Teachers Pay Teachers. Teachers and students are able to access and bring experts/mentors from the local and global communities into the classroom through programs like Skype. Virtual reality programs enable students to build and develop their STEM (Science, Technology, Engineering & Math) skills.  Fun and engaging programs like Kahoot help enhance student learning and enable teachers to reflect on areas that need further work. Students can create and share their learning globally through student made podcasts, videos and blogs. Collaboration is no longer confined to the four walls of a classroom or building. Students can work together on the same document at the same time and provide peer feedback in real time.  We are currently using a program called MyBlueprint to enable students to create portfolios and collect artifacts of their learning that can be shared with Universities and parents.  This program ties into their highschool courses, provides transcripts, enables them to complete surveys that help them better understand their strengths and provides possible career suggestions.

Technology when used to promote student engagement, to assess emotional, social and intelligence needs of students and used to transform learning that goes beyond the four walls of the classroom is a very useful tool indeed.

 

References:

Government of British Columbia. Retrieved from https://www2.gov.bc.ca/gov/content/education-training/administration/kindergarten-to-grade-12/surveys/satisfaction-survey

Kandampully, J., Bilghihan, A., Tingting, C. (2016). Developing a People-Technology Hybrids Model to Unleash Innovation and Creativity: The New Hospitality Frontier.  https://doi.org/10.1016/j.jhtm.2016.07.003

Northouse, P.G. (2019).  Leadership: Theory and Practice.  (8th ed.). Thousand Oaks, CA:  Sage Publications, Inc.

Scott, M. (2016, May 23). A Glimpse Into Technology Coaching. Retrieved from http://marsscott.com/visionaryleadership/a-glimpse-into-technology-coaching/

 

Chatting with Kunal Singla

It was a pleasure chatting with Kunal today and getting to know him better.  Being able to put a human face to  blog posts and connecting in person over Google video hangout helped define for me why I am in this course.

Kunal has recently come to Canada from India where he hopes to be able to pursue his license to practice Dentistry or go into medical administration. I asked Kunal who his greatest influences were in his life and Kunal shared with me stories about his Dad (a businessman) who inspired Kunal to become the man he is today. His dad taught him the importance of how to treat other people and to demonstrate care for the whole person. Kunal feels that his greatest strengths are his ability to listen well and demonstrate empathy both skills he learned from watching his father in action.  He shared with me that his favourite quotes are “Fear no failure in life” and “One day will be possible, only if I do it”  and that he applies these quotes to each task he takes on and each challenge that he faces in life.  I appreciated both of these quotes and loved the significance of one day being possible (our dreams coming true) only if we pursue them.  It’s not just about having a dream, but following through and acting on it. We can’t expect others to do it for us.

Kunal feels he performed at his best during his final years of his Bachelor’s Degree.  He had experience, knowledge and skills to apply which helped enable him to perform well.  Coming to a new country and adapting to a different way of life is  challenging, and definitely has its ups and downs. When I complimented Kunal on the courage that it must have taken to embark on his new journey, he commented that he feels that he has been able to succeed because he has a lot of  internal courage, the support of his parents and a strong knowledge base to draw from.

It was evident throughout our conversation that Kunal is a warm, friendly and genuine individual who sincerely cares about others.  His personality skills, courage and knowledge are all traits that any one of us would love to have in a dentist, in a friend and a colleague.

I am grateful and blessed to have had the opportunity to get to know him better.  His inner courage is inspiring!

 

References:

Rockwell, D. (2017, March 17) The Anatomy of Performance Enhancing Coaching Conversations. 

 

 

A Response To Achsah’s Springs Post “Time is Short”

“Time is Short” – Light From Many Lamps Assignment 3

I loved your willingness and courage to write an honest, gut wrenching blogpost about regret and loss. It is through the sharing of stories like these that we all grow the most.

Your post got me thinking about all of the people that we meet and talk to throughout the course of each day. How well do we actually know the people that we converse with?  Are we attempting to get to know people beyond a superficial level? The question can also be flipped as well… if someone asks you,  “How are you?”, would you ever reply “Not well” or would you give the standard “Good thanks and you?” no matter how badly you are feeling?  To whom would you reply honestly and why?  What does this say about us and humanity in general?

Everyone we meet has a story. It doesn’t matter how old or how young someone is. Our stories help define and shape who we are.  By sharing stories, we learn to empathize with others and learn things that we didn’t know or appreciate before. Storytelling is big in my class! One of the things that I do with my students involves creating a Lyric Wheel where we analyze the lyrics of a song and find meaning and symbolism within in our own lives. The following lyrics are ones that have generated tremendous discussion within the classroom. Here are excerpts from  Brandi Carlisle’s  song entitled ‘The Story’…

The Story

All of these lines across my face
Tell you the story of who I am
So many stories of where I’ve been
And how I got to where I am
But these stories don’t mean anything
When you’ve got no one to tell them to…..

You see the smile that’s on my mouth
It’s hiding the words that don’t come out
And all of my friends who think that I’m blessed
They don’t know my head is a mess
No, they don’t know who I really am
And they don’t know what
I’ve been through like you do….

I especially like the message behind these lyrics and it is a good lesson for students to better understand another person’s perspective and that sometimes life isn’t always how it might appear for others. Everyone needs someone to tell their stories to, otherwise “these stories don’t mean anything”.

Granted, it can be extremely difficult for people to open up and share their stories. It takes courage and a willingness to be vulnerable. However, stories enable people to connect, grow and learn as they relate to the storyteller. Stories are the building blocks of humanity. Whether through the stories shared in the book Light From Many Lamps or the stories shared on our class blogs, all stories enable us to become better human beings.

I am humbled, blessed and grateful that you shared your story with us. Thank you.

 

After I responded to your post, I noticed that Brene Brown had posted this on her Instagram wall.  I thought it was totally applicable… she stated that, “Everyone has a story that will break your heart. And if you’re really paying attention, most people have a story that will bring you to your knees“.

Brene Brown Instagram

 

 

 

Response to Charlie Mable’s Post “As a Man Thinks”

As A Man Thinks

 

I truly look forward to reading your posts each week! I always walk away feeling inspired.

I appreciated what you shared from James Lane Allen’s book ‘As a Man Thinketh’ and how  Allen  “believed his thoughts, dreams and action made all the difference, not making excuses and blaming circumstance.” It is an important message for everyone to hear.  Far too often, people use their circumstances as a crutch in life and an excuse for not achieving their goals and aspirations.

There are many circumstances in life that are terribly crushing, there’s no doubt about it. It’s how we choose to deal with them that define us and help shape us into who we are and what we will become.  Each year, I am always awed and completely humbled watching my Karen refugee students who fled from terrible violence and slaughter  (that none of us can even imagine) exceed all expectations. I am reminded that my struggles are small compared to what they have witnessed and experienced in their short years. Link to learn more about the Karen Refugee Camps They have never made excuses or blamed circumstance when they had every right to do so.  Instead, their thoughts, dreams and actions truly made all the difference.  One of my refugee students wrote me a letter at the end of last year, and in it she shared “I’ve uncovered (that) you have 3 things you could choose in life. Give up, give in or give it your all.”   She signed her name at the bottom and next to her name wrote, “Dare to live”.  I keep her letter pinned to the bulletin board next to my desk as a reminder to give it my all and to dare to live.

Letter from Nuengrutai, my student

 

 

Unit 6 – Andragogy: My Experience as an Adult Learner

I have had the opportunity to both be an adult learner and to work with adult learners. As someone who has worked with elementary, middle and high school students, I am extremely confident in stating that working with adults is a whole different world!   Libra Boyd (2015) in her review of Merriam and Bierema’s (2004) book Adult Learning: Linking Theory and Practice  shares that for the most part, children’s daily lives are filled with learning, whereas adults have to balance family, work, school and other social obligations. Unlike young children, adults are able to make deeper connections to their learning because they have a larger database of life experiences to draw upon.  For the focus of this post, I am going to address my own experience as an adult learner rather than as an adult teacher.

Malcolm Knowles as referenced in our Unit 6 notes discusses 6 principle assumptions about Andragogy (the art and science of helping adults learn).

https://www.educatorstechnology.com/2015/03/andragogy-visually-explained-for-teachers.html

  1. As a person matures, his or her self-concept moves from that of a dependent personality toward one of a self-directing human being. 
    • The older I get, the less dependent I am upon others for validation of my identity or my thoughts/ideas. I used to place a tremendous emphasis on how I fit into the social hierarchy of my school/work/personal life and tied my identity to that role. I now care more about acting with integrity and being true to myself and my values than I am about fitting in to a role/mold that I think others want me to be. I am focused more on discovering who I am as a person so that I can become the best me possible. If I can figure this out, then I will have more to offer to others. In the past I wouldn’t question or rock the boat, and now I do not prescribe to a group mentality and am proud of having a voice to call my own. I like to form my own opinions and don’t take what other people have to say as ‘gospel’ especially when they are talking about other students or adults in the building. This definitely has only come about in the past 5 years or so as I have matured into myself.
  2. An adult accumulates a growing reservoir of experience, which is a rich resource for learning.
    • This is definitely true! I appreciate every experience that I’ve had (the good, the bad, the ugly) because they have helped shape me into who I am today. When facing difficult decisions, I know that I have a toolbox full of skills and experience to draw upon to not only help myself but to help others and benefit my learning community.  Adults are able to make deeper connections to their learning because they have a larger database of life experiences from which to draw upon. By sharing these experiences we learn from each other.
  3. The readiness of an adult to learn is closely related to the developmental tasks of his/her social role. 
    • My life circumstances have forced me to take charge of my own future.  I have never been more ready to learn! I know what I want in life and I’m going to do whatever it takes to seek it out and make it a reality.
  4. There is a change in time perspective as people mature – from future application of knowledge to immediacy of application. Thus, an adult is more problem than subject centred in learning.
    • Unlike when I was in high school I now take what I learn and apply it immediately to my life, and to my career. The material being taught is no longer something that seems far off in the future, instead it is right now, in the present. My learning is relevant and job related and therefore immediately applicable.
  5. Adults are mostly driven by internal motivation, rather than external motivators.

    Adult Learning Styles – YouTube

    • While I cannot speak for others, this is definitely true for me.  I went back to school in 2008 as a mature student and got my teaching degree after being a stay at home mom for 10 years because it had always been my dream to become a teacher. I didn’t do it for the money, I didn’t do it for social status,  I did it for me. I signed up for this Master’s course because I want to continue to challenge myself by soaking up as much knowledge as I can so that I can become a better me.  I do it because I am intrinsically driven to do it. Unlike in high school or during my first Bachelor of Arts Degree (I left home and went away to University when I was 17), I am driven to do the best that I can instead of just producing the bare minimum to get by.  I know that whatever I put into my learning is what I will get out of it.  I am intrinsically driven to be an adult learner because I want to be the best me possible.
  6. Adults need to know the reason for learning something. (Merriam & Bierma, 2014, p. 47)
    • According to Donnelly-Smith (2011) in the article “What Adult Learners Can Teach Us About All Learners: A Conversation with L. Lee Knefelkamp”, they state that, “learning is meaningful to the degree that we can connect it to the concrete experiences of our student’s lives.”  As an adult learner, I need to be able to connect what I am learning to my own life. There needs to be a direct correlation in order for it to be meaningful and for me to want to be motivated to learn it.
    • According to Boyd (2015),  Merriam and Bierema (2004, p. 106) in Chapter Six of their book Adult Learning: Linking Theory and Practice discuss the need for “reflective practice, situated cognition and communities of practice” in adult education. By reflecting on our own practice, building and sharing our professional learning networks with others, by reading and commenting on each other’s blog posts and by expanding our cognitive knowledge through our assigned readings and essays we are slowly transforming ourselves into the leaders that we wish to be.

Adult learners take on an active role in their learning and seek out opportunities to add and develop skills to build up their toolboxes.  A team like relationship begins to develop between the learners, their educational peers as well as their professors. It is mutually beneficial for everyone involved to share their knowledge, and mistakes so that all of us can learn from them. Our notes from Unit 6, sums this up “we must willingly seek input and collaboration with stakeholders” as  “our personal growth and transformation impact others”.  I have learned so much already from reading the blog posts of my peers in this course. I have gained insight and perspective that I might not otherwise have been exposed to. I am grateful for this experience.  Our Unit 6 notes also mention about the presence of  “wisdom often being in the room” with us and I have definitely found this to be so. As a mature student, I want to continue on my journey of  choosing to learn and choosing to participate because I want to, and not because I have to.

 

References: 

Boyd, L. N. (2015). Adult learning: Linking Theory and Practice, by Sharan B. Merriam and Laura L. Bierema. San Francisco, CA: Jossey-Bass, 2014. 320 pages, $50.00 (hardcover). New Horizons In Adult Education & Human Resource Development, 27(4), 66. don:10.1002/nha3.20125

Dewey, J. (1944). Democracy and Education. New York: The Free Press.

Donnelly-Smith, L. (2011). What Adult Learners Can Teach Us About All Learners: A Conversation with L. Lee Knefelkamp. Peer Review, 13(1), 8-9.

Hui, C.,Snider L., & Couture, M. (2016). Self-reguluation workshop and occupational performance coaching with teachers: A pilot study. Canadian Journal of Occupational Therapy, 83(2), 115-125. don:10.1177/0008417415627665

Katz J., & Sugden, R. (2013). The Three-Block Meodel of Universal Design for Learning Implementation in a High School. Canadian Journal of Educational Administration and Policy, 141, 1-28.

Klinger, D.A., Voluante, L., & DeLuca, C. (2012). Building teacher capacity within the evolving assessment culture in Canadian education. Policy Futures in Education, 10(4), 447-460. don:10.2304/pfie.2012.10.4.447

Merriam, S.B., & Bierema, L.L. (2014). Adult Learning: Linking theory and practice. San Francisco: Jossey-Bass.

Merriam, S.B., & Grace,  A.P. (2011). Contemporary Issues in Adult Education. San Francisco: Jossey-Bass.

Sokal, L., & Sharma, U. (2014). Canadian in-service teachers’ concerns, efficacy, and attitudes about inclusive teaching. Exceptionality Education International, 23(1), 59-71.

 

Light From Many Lamps: What you do not wish done to yourself, do not do to others

“What you do not wish done to yourself, do not do to others.”  ~ Confucius

(Watson, 1988, p. 195)

Confucius courtesy of Google Images

Lillian Watson (1988) in her book Light From Many Lamps, shares Confucius’ wise words with her readers.  Confucius, in one simple sentence, sums up the entire building block of what humanity should look like and sound like.  Think of what the world could look like if we all took Confucius’ advice!  We would be more tolerant and accepting of each other’s differences. We would provide to those who have not, or who are struggling for the means that do they have. We would celebrate each other’s victories and share each sorrow. We would uplift and encourage those who are weary and cheer on those who are overcoming obstacles on their journey. We would share our knowledge and our skills for the benefit of everyone and help others grow and learn.  Confucius’ message is one of servant leadership.

The place to start is in our own homes, our own work environments, our place of worship and our social circles.  Confucius when speaking to the feuding cattle and sheep herders, told them:

The rule of life is to be found within yourself. Ask yourself constantly, “What is the right thing to do?” Consideration for others is the basis of a good life, a good society. Feel kindly toward everyone. Be friendly and pleasant among yourselves. Be generous and fair. ~ Confucius

(Watson, 1988, p. 195)

I can honestly say that I try to live by Confucius and later Jesus’ words “Do onto others as you would have others do unto you”.  Due to human nature, this is not always an easy thing to do, despite the simplicity of the words. I don’t always succeed as well as I would like to, but can definitely say that I try very hard to live by this mantra.

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As a parent of two completely different kids with two completely different personalities and learning abilities, I try to treat my students the way I would like other teachers to treat my own children.  I have learned a lot since becoming a parent and view teaching completely differently as a result. I realize more than ever, the importance of treating each student as an individual and of focusing on their strengths and the things that they do well.  I also realize that if there are behaviour issues, chances are extremely high that there is a reason why and a backstory. It is my responsibility to find out what that is and to support each of my students as best as possible.  Not everything is simple and straightforward and there are a lot of grey areas.  Servant leadership means doing everything I can to help students and others grow. I try and share as much as possible with my team, the mistakes that I have made and the lessons that I have learned from them.  I admit though that I  find it extremely difficult at times knowing how to respond when I observe some teachers taking a hard line, zero grace approach with some of our most vulnerable and at risk students.  Those teachers remind me of the herders that Confucius tried to speak to, to help them change their ways, to bring about peace. It is amazing how our own stories affect how we react to others. I am extremely grateful to every teacher who has reached out to my own children and continued to believe in them even when they made mistakes. To every teacher who cared enough to ask and who genuinely listened  when my own children struggled after my divorce, I thank them profusely. To every teacher who realized that the heart needs to be taken care of before the mind can engage, I thank them. For every teacher who treated my children with grace, dignity and respect, I thank them from the bottom of my heart.  I want to be that teacher, that educational leader for someone else’s child. I want to share kindness with others as they have done for me and mine.

My father-in-law before he passed away was a Vice-President with one of the major Canadian banks. He had worked for this company since he was 16 years old and was a very loyal employee. He had a very high profile position and dealt with outstanding loans for large corporations who were facing bankruptcy. He was once asked to do something that he didn’t agree with by his superiors and he knew that if he stood up for what he felt was the right thing to do, there would be repercussions.  Just like Confucius, he asked himself “What is the right thing to do?” and ended up choosing to retire early rather than lose sight of who he was and his values.  The story was told often around the dinner table, as he wanted to make sure his children and grand-children understood that at the end of the day, there is only one thing that matters.  He would often say, “You need to be able to look yourself in the mirror at the end of the day and be happy with what you see.  You need to  be happy with who you are, what you represent and how you conducted yourself. If you can do that, then you can always be sure that you are doing the right thing”.  It takes courage to do the right thing, especially when you are in the minority. This is advice that has always stuck with me and that I share every year with each group of new students.  When I was younger, one of the pre-teen groups that I was hanging out with told another girl that she couldn’t play with us and she was excluded.  I didn’t speak up when I could have for fear of repercussions from the group. She died in a car accident before I could apologize and it has haunted me forever. There is a lot of friendship drama in school, and I share this story with my students and tell them that I wish I could have a ‘do-over’ to make it right. When dealing with uncomfortable situations, Confucius reminds us to continually ask ourselves “What is the right thing to do?”

My own dad taught me the importance of having integrity. He would often tell my brother and I that if you take away all material possessions all that a person has left is their reputation/legacy. What will yours say? I am often reminded of this advice when faced with difficult decisions.

I want to learn to be a better servant leader. To always ask, “What is the right thing to do?” and to treat everyone with kindness. I want to be fair and generous in my interactions and to ensure that my actions fall in line with Confucius’ teachings so that I only do onto others as I wish them to do onto me (or mine).

What is your most inspiring story of when someone has been kind to you and how has it directly affected how you approach leadership?

 

References:

Eichler Watson, L.E. (1988). Light from Many Lamps, (1st Fireside Edition). New York, NY: Simon & Schuster, Inc.

Invictus – Nelson Mandela and his Lessons in Inclusive Leadership

Morgan Freeman as Nelson Mandela in the movie Invictus (2009)

The movie “Invictus” (2009) not only showcases the South African “Springbok” National Rugby Team and its impact on South Africa’s transition from segregation to integration, it also highlights Nelson Mandela’s example of what true transformational servant leadership looks and sounds like in action.

Nelson Mandela realized that he was facing an enormous challenge when he became President of South Africa in 1994. He was taking the reins of a country so deeply divided, with chasms so wide it appeared at first glance that it would be impossible to bring the two sides together.  However, being an extraordinary transformational servant leader, Nelson Mandela was able to see well beyond the challenges of the present to the possibilities that lay just over horizon.

Nelson Mandela used the “Springbok” National Rugby Team as a way to bring an entire country together and to bridge the divide between those who had supported apartheid and those who fought so hard against it. The rugby team represented so much more than just a sport, it represented possibilities for South Africa and its people. Even though the antecedent conditions (Northouse, 2019, p.233)  were not initially favourable for Nelson Mandela’s style of leadership, he possessed qualities and characteristics that eventually attracted the following of an entire nation.

Morgan Freeman as Nelson Mandela in prison in the movie Invictus (2009)

He possessed all seven servant leadership behaviours (Northouse, 2019, p. 235) that are the backbone of the servant leadership process.  Nelson Mandela could conceptualize and was able to see the big picture.  Being a prisoner for 27 years,  he fully understood the “purpose, complexities and mission” that he faced and how to “address problems creatively in accordance with the overall goals of the organization” (Northouse, 2019, p.235).  He prioritized emotional healing and was extremely sensitive to the needs of others and their well being.  He is famously quoted in the movie, speaking to his own family who were angry over his imprisonment and wanting to punish those who had harmed others; “You criticize without understanding. You seek only to address your own personal feelings. That is selfish thinking.”  He goes on to share about the power of forgiveness stating that, “forgiveness liberates the soul. It removes fear. That is why it is such a powerful weapon.”

Morgan Freeman as Nelson Mandela and Matt Damon as Francois Pienaar in the movie Invictus (2009)

He put his followers first always. He is seen in the movie constantly asking after others and how they are doing personally.  Their needs came ahead of his own. He helped his followers grow and succeed while modelling ethical behaviour and choices. Nelson Mandela mentored his followers  (members of his office, his bodyguards, the sports regulatory body, the captain of the “Springboks” team, Francois Pinnear and the general public) by providing them with the support they needed. He helped his bodyguards in particular as well as Francois Pinnear become “self-actualized” and enabled them to reach their “full potential” all qualities mentioned by Northouse (2019.

Nelson Mandela: How do you inspire your team to do their best?

Francois Pienaar: By example. I’ve always thought to lead by example, sir.

Nelson Mandela: Well, that is right. That is exactly right. But how do we get them to be better then they think they CAN be? That is very difficult, I find. Inspiration, perhaps. How do we inspire ourselves to greatness when nothing less will do? How do we inspire everyone around us? I sometimes think it is by using the work of others.

~Movie Invictus (2009)

Despite his own personal feelings regarding his imprisonment, Mandela always behaved ethically. He was consistently “open, honest and fair with his followers” and he never “compromised his ethical principles in order to achieve success” (Northouse, 2019, p. 236). He famously says in the movie, when told that he was risking his political capital and his future as a leader by speaking up to the sports regulatory body, he replied, “The day I am afraid to do that (speak up) is the day I am no longer fit to lead.”

He empowered others and enabled them to make decisions on their own and as such it built his followers confidence in themselves to think and act on their own. He provides Francois Pienaar with a poem he had written while in prison to help inspire him to lead the Springboks to victory. By the end of the movie,  Francois Pienaar also decides that he wants to actually sing the words to the national anthem instead of just mouth them as he develops a deep pride and love for his country. He is determined to leave nothing on the field and to give everything he can for his country so that South Africa can win the World Cup, realizing the significance of his one team and one country.

Francois Pienaar when asked what Mandela wanted during their meeting: “I think he wants us to win the World Cup.”

Francois Pienaar: “I may break my arm, my leg, my neck, but I will not let that freaking guy go (referring to #11 from Australia).”

Nelson Mandela created value for his nation by being involved with the Springboks rugby team. As a true servant leader, he “nurtured individual growth, strengthened organizational performance, and in the end, produced a positive impact on society” (Northouse, 2019, p. 238). He knew that when his followers received care and empowerment from an ethical leader, his followers would in turn begin treating others in the same way. 

Nelson Mandela’s vision paid off and he went down in history as a leader who encouraged racial harmony within a rainbow nation and someone who led by example and embraced forgiveness over power. His support of the national rugby team the Springboks, was just the start of his empowering others to achieve more than they had originally thought  possible.

 

References:

“Invictus” Warner Brothers, 2009.

Northouse, P.G. (2019). Leadership: Theory & Practice (8th ed). Sage Publications.

Response to Charlie Mable’s Post “See, Listen, Reflect”

A response to Charlie Mable’s blog post entitled “See, Listen, Reflect” Link to Blog Post:

I thoroughly enjoyed reading your blog post and especially loved your question and comment about listening and empathy.

How can there be empathy without first actively listening with understanding? The adage comes up that we have one mouth and two ears and should spend twice as much time listening as speaking.

You didn’t just say listening, (which is a verb itself) but you added the word “actively” to define even further that leaders need to intentionally listen to others in order to understand. The other day, I was chatting with someone about a particularly moving and sad story and at one point they accidentally responded “cool”.  They quickly realized that the response of “cool” didn’t come remotely close to being applicable and they apologized for not really listening and being distracted. We laughed about it and moved on. However, if I had been a student, sharing something deeply personal, this interaction might have caused me to never want to share again. It was a good reminder to this individual and to myself, the need to put our phones down, to ignore the dings of our email and to focus intentionally and listen actively.   How many times have we missed something important due to a lack of actively and intentionally listening? How many opportunities to connect were lost because we were too focused on ourselves?

You raised another great question at the bottom of your post:

Do you agree that having a reflective practice increases and is important for awareness?

Yes, I completely 100% agree that having a reflective practice is important in order to become more aware.  When things go wrong especially, it is often easy to find excuses or become defensive. However, I truly believe that we grow the most by being reflective and thinking about how we can improve things for next time. It’s not about beating ourselves up over something, but rather acknowledging the good, the bad and the ugly and learning from them so that we can add these experiences to our tool kit.  We will have a much better perspective and the foresight on how to do things differently/better when similar situations crop up again.

Thank you for stimulating some reflection of my own after reading your post!

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