I am writing this in response to Riggisonilap’s comment on my post about the questionnaires-

Thanks for picking up on my relationship with my co-workers. I sincerely believe I am a very friendly and outgoing person .  Im still curious about this co workers response . This is someone who works at the front desk in our clinic, we don’t interact very much, just crossing paths occasionally . Her response was the outlier on my surveys. I would like to discuss it further with her, but don’t know what the best approach is. I am still working on how to bring it up with her, without offending her or sounding defensive.