Journey of Self Discovery

Category: LDRS500 (Page 5 of 5)

Responses to Posts From Unit 1

Achsahs-Springs Blog Post 2 : Assigned vs Emergent Leaders & Managers vs Leaders

Link: https://create.twu.ca/achsahs-springs/2018/05/05/blog-post-2-head-to-head-assigned-vs-emergent-leaders-managers-vs-leaders/

Question Posed in Post: Does growing in leadership skills and abilities demand releasing the managerial skills and abilities?

My Response:

Hi there,
I thoroughly enjoyed reading your post. I especially could connect and relate to your experience finding “leading from the floor” to be more effective than your previous assigned leadership role. I too would like to delve more into this later and examine why we find this to be true.

As far as your question about releasing managerial skills and abilities goes in order to grow as a leader, my immediate response is “not at all”. I think that some of us inherently have these organizational skills and they help enable us to foresee, plan and share a vision. I think organizational skills can enhance our leadership abilities, however, the mistake a lot of people make I think (based purely on personal experience with some leaders) is when people in positional leadership roles use their managerial skills to try and micro-manage others instead of empowering them or creating opportunities for them to build their own skills and be successful. I think true leaders surround themselves with people who are able to bring skills to the table that enable everyone to be successful in working towards a common goal. If someone in a position of power does everything (or attempts to do everything) or takes credit for everything, those people will never be true leaders.

 

Maddison Olsen Post – Unit 1, Learning Activity 5

Link: https://create.twu.ca/maddisonolson/2018/05/06/unit-1-learning-activity-5/

Discussion Question: How can I ensure I’m listening to my team members and effectively communicating with them when our paths do not cross on a regular basis?

My Response:

Great communication question! I don’t know how this would work in a kitchen (or how this might be perceived), but perhaps, leaving little personal handwritten notes every now and again for your team letting them know that you care, you appreciate them and acknowledge that amazing things that they do and that you’re checking in to see if there is anything that they might need… might be a good way to keep in touch.

Our staff team has a group message system that we use.  I also stay in touch with students through an app called Remind. It’s a great way to get a message out to a whole group or just specific individuals.  It is also a safe way to communicate with students as all messages are recorded.

 

Achsahs-Springs Post 3 – Principles of Servant Leadership

Link: https://create.twu.ca/achsahs-springs/2018/05/05/blog-post-3-three-principles-of-servant-leadership/

Question Posed: “So I have preconditioned myself to believe that influencing individuals, groups and situations is more difficult, challenging, and, well… unlikely.  So my closing question to invite further comment and discussion is this:  are there others who have wrestled with this mindset?  And does this mindset put limits on one’s ability to lead?”

My Response:

I really enjoyed reading your post. I especially liked your question about mindset. I believe our mindset dictates a lot and it’s something that I wrestle with a lot. There’s a Henry Ford quote that is one of my favourites and I learned it in a karate dojo. I was nervous about having to break a piece of wood for the first time building up to one of my early gradings. My Sensei took me aside and told me that I needed to believe that I could do it. If I didn’t believe it, then I definitely wouldn’t be able to achieve it. This is when he shared with me what Henry Ford once said; “If you think you can, then you can. But, if you think you can’t, then you can’t.” It’s something I share with my students each year as well and try to remind myself when I’m feeling doubtful and questioning my abilities to make a difference.

 

Maddison Olson – Follow the Leader: Simon Sinek

Link: https://create.twu.ca/maddisonolson/2018/05/06/follow-the-leader-simon-sinek/

Question/Discussion: The concept Simon is most known for is the Golden Circle. He believes that the most successful people do not get that way by talking about what they are doing but instead by talking about the why behind what they do. The best leaders communicate the why behind their organizations goals.

My Response:

I really enjoyed reading your post. I love Simon Sinek too! I use his videos quite a bit in the classroom with my students and the conversations that we generate as a result are amazing and so insightful! I especially like his discussion of the importance of knowing your why. There is another video that I love, by Michael Jr. if you haven’t seen it yet that also demonstrates the difference when you know your why. The link for it is https://youtu.be/LZe5y2D60YU. I love it so much that I have it set to stay on my website as a daily reminder to myself as to why I’m here!  I also have used it during staff meetings with the team as a motivation as to the difference between just showing up at school and teaching, and knowing your personal reason why you come to school and teach. I also use it with my Grade 12’s to help them prepare for the transition from high school to the ‘real world’ to help them understand their purpose.

 

Responses to Other Posts: Unit 2

In response to Achsah’s Springs Post on Light From Many Lamps Assignment

Link: https://create.twu.ca/achsahs-springs/2018/05/12/focus-outside-ourselves-light-from-many-lamps-assignment-1/

Quote from Mother Teresa that was discussed in her post: Lasting change is created by the actions of one person as proposed in this quote credited to Mother Teresa:  “I alone cannot change the world, but I can cast a stone across the waters to create many ripples.”

Question posed in her post was: “How do you find happiness outside of yourself?”

My response: Your post is beautifully written and so articulate! It sums up the purpose of leadership and why we choose to serve others. I love the Mother Teresa quote that you shared about the importance of creating a ripple. The purpose of your trip to Kenya is inspiring and I am so happy that those students have someone that genuinely cares about them and their success in life.

To answer your question about finding happiness outside of ourselves, I can genuinely say that this revolves around my love for what I do. Working with at risk students, despite it’s challenges, is one of the most rewarding things I have ever done.

Do you think that a lot of leaders within your organization are ‘happy’ with themselves and the job that they are doing?

 

In response to Charlie Mable’s Post on the Survey Questionnaire

Link: https://create.twu.ca/charliemable/2018/05/11/leadership-questionnaires/

Question that was posed by Charlie was: Is this (my traits and leadership style) what the position needs, or what I bring to the table?”

My Response: I loved your question of “Is this what the position needs, or what I bring to the table?” It caused me to do some deep reflecting myself on whether what I bring to the table is what my position actually needs.

I also wonder how many of us will find that we scored lower on self-confidence and self-assurance, and what steps we could take to build that up. If we are fully capable of doing our jobs and we do them well, then why does it appear to others that we don’t come across as believing enough in ourselves? What is that we do or say that gives this impression?

 

In response to Charlie Mable’s Post on Light From Many Lamps  

Link: https://create.twu.ca/charliemable/2018/05/12/light-from-many-lamps-section-1-and-2/#comment-5

Question that was posed by Charlie was “Do you agree that rest is rust?”

My Response: I absolutely loved your post! It really hit home as I can totally relate to being at the same stage in life with my kids, my career and wanting to keep moving, to not grow stagnate. I definitely agree that rest can become rust. A lot of my fellow teachers who retired, found that they suddenly went from being extremely busy to having too much idle time that they didn’t know how to fill. They felt restless and unfulfilled. Retirement wasn’t what they had thought it would be. Many of them now, teach on call, volunteer and have taken up part time jobs. I also loved your point about instead of asking why to ask why not. It was a great reminder for me to not shrink away from trying new things and to say ‘yes’ more to opportunities that arise. Thanks for the inspiration!

What would you ask why not about within your organization?

 

In Response to Shaaz Post on Light From Many Lamps – Abraham Lincoln

Link:  https://create.twu.ca/shaaz/2018/05/12/assignment-light-from-many-lamps/

Discussion: Abraham Lincoln, servant leadership and the importance of being sensitive towards others

My Response: I liked and appreciated your point about the importance of remembering to be sensitive towards others. As a teacher, this is something that I work on and try to practice each day. There are many things going on in my student’s lives that affect their ability to learn. It is also a life lesson that I try and share with my students as well. A quote (whose origins I am unsure of as it has been attributed to Maya Angelou, Carl W. Buehner and Carol Buchner) comes to mind, “I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.” Thank you for reminding me of the importance of being sensitive.

Do you think that a lot of leaders rate sensitivity as a desirable trait or something that can be a detriment to doing business?

 

In Response to Achsah’s Springs Leadership Traits Questionnaire

Link: https://create.twu.ca/achsahs-springs/2018/05/10/leadership-traits-questionnaire-results/

Discussion: Interpretation of questionnaire results 

I’m sorry you had a rotten day and I hope that this coming week is better for you! I really appreciated your vulnerability and courage in sharing your experience and how it affected you. Definitely something that we all can relate to! I also really admired your attitude towards your interpretation of your questionnaire scores and how you were going to take the discrepancies in the scores and use them as a starting place to grow. I found your approach to be really inspiring!

Brene Brown is a great read on courage and vulnerability if you haven’t delved into her books or TED talks yet!

Light From Many Lamps – Enjoy Yourself: It is Later Than You Think

“Well, maybe it is later than you think; why don’t you do something about it?” (Dr. Frederic Loomis, 1938)

I couldn’t stop thinking about this story after I read it.  It felt like it was written specifically for me as a reminder to live my life in the present, and to not keep putting my hopes and dreams off until the future. Both my Dad and my Father In Law passed away at a time in their lives when they had planned to do all of those things that they had put off for so long due to busy careers and the tasks and costs associated with  growing families. They never had the opportunity to enjoy some of the rewards that they had earned.

Dr. Loomis (1938) in Lillian Eichler Watson’s Light from Many Lamps shares that;

“Many years have been added to the average expectation of life but each individual’s fate is still a hazard. The most valuable people around us have lived largely for others. This seems the time to remind them that they will have more years, and happier ones, to do good for others if they start right now to do something for themselves; to go places and to do things which they have looked forward to for years; to give those who love them the happiness of seeing them enjoy some of the rewards which they have earned; to replace competition with a bit of contemplation. (Watson, 1988, p. 27)”

On a personal note,  saying yes to opportunities that solely benefit myself, isn’t an easy thing for me to do.  I  married my high school sweetheart and wholeheartedly lived 25 years of my life putting my spouse and my two children first.  When my marriage fell apart three years ago, I was gutted and at a complete loss. I struggled with rediscovering who I am.  I had identified myself solely as a wife and mom for so many years. Even with two grown children, I felt guilty about putting myself first or doing anything to reward myself.  Shonda Rhimes book, The Year of Yes (2015) was a great read and I made a pact with myself that I needed to say yes to opportunities more when they present themselves.  As reminded by Dr. Loomis (1938) it is important to go places and do things that we have looked forward to for years, and if we actually take the time to do these things for ourselves in turn we will be providing more happiness and joy to those who we continue to serve both personally and professionally.

My Dream Board

I created a dream board two years ago that hangs on my bathroom wall. It is a reminder to me each morning as I get ready of what I would like to do and who I would like to become as a person.  On my dream board are several beautiful photos of Italy, a place I have always wanted to explore. Much to my surprise and delight, I was recently presented with the opportunity to travel to Europe this summer on free airline points. Despite the photos on my dream board (that I have looked at for two years straight)  my immediate gut reaction was; “No way, I can’t do that. I have 2 kids, an elderly mom and a dog to look after. I’ve just started my Masters and I don’t think I can even afford to go …etc.,” The reality is that my kids are older and will be well looked after as will my mom and dog.  Just like Dr. Frederic Loomis’ medical practice in his story, my family world also will not stop spinning and fall apart  if I go Italy.  I know that ultimately, I would regret it if I didn’t go.  Thanks Dr. Loomis and Shonda Rhimes for confirming for me that I need to say yes and go! Look out Europe! Here I come!

W. Beran Wolfe declared that, “One important source of unhappiness is the habit of putting off living to some fictional future date (Watson, 1988, p.29”.  I don’t want to keep putting off my dreams and miss out on the many opportunities that life has to offer.  Time really is a gift and one that none of us knows the quantity of.  The time is now for me to pursue my dreams of travel, getting my Masters and pursuing educational leadership opportunities. As Loomis (1938) says,”Well, maybe it is later than you think; why don’t you do something about it? (Watson, 1988, p.25)”

‘Why don’t you do something about it?’ is a great leadership question! If there is something that we don’t like or something we want to do, what’s stopping us from getting it done? Who or what are we waiting for?

 

 

Eichler Watson, L.E. (1988). Light from Many Lamps, (1st Fireside Edition). New York, NY: Simon & Schuster, Inc.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Survey Says… Leadership Questionnaires

Survey Says …

Can leadership abilities, traits and styles really be revealed by answering a few questionnaires?  I was curious to find out just how close the results aligned with my own self conception.

The style questionnaire revealed I perform almost equally at the top of the high range for tasks and relationships.  I was a little surprised that my results were equally spread out in Leadership Theory and Practice. I scored 25 in Technical Skill, 27 in Human Skill and 26.5 in Conceptual Skill.  

I wanted to make sure that the responses to the Leadership Trait Questionnaire really were an honest reflection so I asked some colleagues from my former school team, my current school team and my significant other to fill them out. The results were consistent, all 5’s except for 3’s and 4’s in self confidence and self-assurance.  It was confirming to know that others view myself and my leadership traits the same way I do. I recognize that I need to work on these two areas in order to be a better leader.

I know that I can be overly sensitive and take things personally at times and would really like to build my self-confidence.  What are some strategies that you have found effective for not letting negativity (from situations or within your organization) affect your self-confidence?

 

 

 

 

Follow the Leader

Follow the Leader

One of my favourite places to visit (besides Pinterest) to be inspired and build my professional learning network is Twitter. I joined Twitter back in September 2012.  One of my jobs in 2012  was working as an Instructional Services Teacher in the School Board Office. As part of my role, I would work one on one with teachers or conduct workshops on the use of technology and how to incorporate its use seamlessly into teaching practice and classrooms.  Twitter was where I turned to for tips and ideas!  Over the years, I have been able to connect with and follow people that I have found inspirational and who have shared the same philosophy of teaching.  If you’re on Twitter as well, I would love to connect with you! You can find me here.

One person that I follow (who I don’t know at all on a personal level and have never even spoken to online) is Danny Steele.  His Twitter link can be found here.  Danny is a Principal from Birmingham, AL.  He also has a blog entitled Steele Thoughts which can be found here.  Since joining in April 2016, he has posted 16.1K times and has amassed 35.3K followers! A social rockstar in educational world terms!

What is it about this man and his posts that has attracted so many followers?  He has a common goal with the rest of us, he truly wants to make a difference! His banner on Twitter reads “I want to do something that MEANS something”, and isn’t that what it’s all about? What makes him stand out from others who spout the same language, is that Danny Steele shares how he tries to make a difference both in his blog and Twitter posts.  He goes beyond just words and demonstrates his words through actions. He is willing to be vulnerable and has the courage to share not just his successes but also his failures and how he has learned from them.  People appreciate his willingness to put himself out there and to express what so many of us are thinking or wanting in ourselves, our community and in our leaders.  He tackles those difficult conversations and asks thought provoking questions that promote self reflection and change. He’s not afraid to share his vision and is quick to acknowledge and give credit where credit is due. He puts his students and his staff above himself and his own needs.

Danny’s values, ethics and leadership principles align with my own (and tie in nicely with Northouse, 2019) as he addresses topics such as empathy, integrity, moral stewardship, healing, awareness, building community and working towards common goals.  Some of the titles of his latest blog posts include;

  • “Every Kid” – he saw a challenge on Twitter that he immediately applied to his own school and had every single student write down the name of someone within the school who cared about them. If a student wrote down “nobody”; he shared this information with the team and together they took steps to try and ensure that every child would have an adult advocate. He shared his findings online and based on questions and feedback that he received, adjusted his approach. He believes that every single student matters and that they need to know that they do. He shows awareness, that he listens to feedback and he demonstrates the ability to conceptualize and wants to promote emotional healing. 
  • Why I love Teachers” – he recognized the efforts of the teachers at his school and that they don’t often get thanked for the little things that they do that no-one else knows about. His post was about giving credit and thanks where he felt it was due and empowering others.
  • “My Top 10 List for Principals” – he asked for feedback from his own staff and also on Twitter about what people would most like to see in a principal and then he created his own list so that he could better improve his own practice.  I appreciate his self-reflection and recognizing that there is always room for improvement. It is evident by his list that he wants to put the needs of students and staff first.
  • “A Thanksgiving Thought” – he shared an email from one of his staff members that highlighted the need to have empathy for students and what some students face each day. He puts the needs of students and staff first by trying to connect and empathize with the struggles of others.
  • “Letter to a Discouraged Student” – he demonstrates that he believes in a student’s capabilities that go far beyond a grade. He recognizes that the system when it comes to grades can be flawed and doesn’t allow for grading beyond what is on a rubric. Through his letter,  he shows that he genuinely wants his students to grow and succeed.
  • “5 Ways to Raise Teacher Morale” – like a good, and authentic leader he understands the importance of building a school community, one that works towards a common goal and he knows that he carries the burden of this responsibility. He looks for ways to help his staff grow and succeed and empowers them to do what they do best. 

Like I mentioned already, I don’t personally know Danny Steele. He works in another country, within a different school system. Yet, there are so many things that make him not just an assigned leader (Principal) but an emerging one, well beyond the four walls of his school on the world stage of education.  I wouldn’t have even known of his existence, if he wasn’t willing to be vulnerable and share his stories (the good, the bad and the ugly).  It’s what makes him real and appealing to follow. It’s what makes me aspire to be more like him and to remember some of his examples when I’m faced with similar issues. He’s the sage on the Twitter stage, a guide who has walked the path before and has the insight to share areas of continued development.

If I could give Danny some advice on how to better motivate followers or use the capabilities of the medium to influence people toward a common goal, it would be; to share more of his journey and how he got to where he is today. I would love for him to start at the beginning of his story before he was well established. I would also like to know more about how he builds community on a daily basis within his school and to learn more about the types of activities that he incorporates during staff meetings or collaboration days. How does he help empower his team to further their professional development? How did he overcome negativity and go from an emerging leader to a leader with a powerful, far reaching voice that over 30 thousand people around the world listen to on a daily basis?

I have never told Danny Steele, how much I enjoy following him or what his willingness to be vulnerable has meant to me or how I try and emulate his leadership style. I think I should!

 

 

Post 3 – Principles of Servant Leadership

Principles of Servant Leadership

Servant leadership is something that I have been taught by example (without ever consciously knowing what it was or labelling it) since a small child growing up.  My Dad was the prime example of what it means to be a servant leader.  My Dad ran his own human resource company, hired by companies to assist people who had been let go from their jobs due to downsizing or other more personal issues.  My family all knew how hard my Dad worked. He would often take phone calls from people in crisis well into the night and on weekends. When he passed away in 2007, the line up at each viewing stretched out the door of the funeral home and around the corner.  Person after person would share with me stories of how my Dad had touched their lives and things he had done (mostly without anyone else ever knowing) to help others be successful.  My Dad knew how to listen, was extremely empathetic, took care of others and was fully committed to helping others grow.  Thursday was the anniversary of his passing, and 11 years after his death, people still share stories with me of how my Dad reached out to them.  I am extremely lucky to have had this example set before me, because it has affected how I have approached every opportunity and relationship in life.

Northouse (2019) referring to Spears (2002), outlines ten characteristics that servant leaders possess. He states that; servant leaders listen first, they are able to see things from another person’s perspective by empathizing, they genuinely care about the well being of others, are aware of the impact their actions have on others, are non-judgemental in their persuasiveness, are able to see the big picture when they visualize,  they understand that they are ultimately responsible for the greater good of the organization/society and hold themselves accountable when things go wrong, they treat people as valuable assets and invest in their growth and as a result they enable people to connect to and value something that is bigger than themselves by building community (2019).   As far as leadership traits, this list is impressive!  Just like the title of servant leadership implies, none of these attributes are self serving.

I took the personal inventory of servant leadership survey and a few key things stood out for me. Firstly,  I have some more work to do! One area in particular is that of awareness. I need to become more aware of my political and social environments. I do try to practice this, but I admit that I need to work on stepping back before stepping in.  This year in particular, I have come into an environment where there are well established workplace politics and social environments in existence.  The antecedent conditions of context and culture along with follower receptivity definitely apply to my new role (Northouse, 2019).  Northouse acknowledges this can be an issue when people do not necessarily wish to be recipients of  servant leadership; “culture influences the way servant leadership is to be achieved (2019, p. 234)” and “it appears that, for some followers, servant leadership has a positive impact and, for others, servant leadership is not effective (2019, p. 234)”.   Northouse refers to Linden et al. (Linden et al., 2008) and his question, “Do all followers show a desire for servant leadership? Research suggests the answer may be no. Some followers do not want to work with servant leaders. They equate servant leadership with micromanagement, and report that they do not want their leader to get to know them or try to help, develop or guide them (Northouse, 2019, p. 234)”.  Although the culture and receptiveness might not welcome servant leadership at the moment, it isn’t something that I plan to abandon.   When things go wrong, I need to be able to view things less personally and more from the perspective of the bigger picture.  I can be overly sensitive and jump to conclusions, creating stories in my head that don’t exist. By taking a step back and learning how to be more objectively aware of the context of situations, I can be a better servant leader.

One  principle area of servant leadership that will help me better develop my ability to be more aware is by continuing to listen first.  I love this principle of Servant Leadership!  If I can listen first, I will essentially be putting others first. By demonstrating the ability to listen not just with my ears but with my heart, I will be able to genuinely acknowledge that I am receptive to others opinions and perspectives.  I have worked with many leaders who model this example. They are the people who put away their devices, stop what they are doing and provide their full attention to the speaker.  They listen without interrupting and without judgement.  This is something that I believe so firmly in and try and practice in all areas of my life.  By listening, we learn more than we ever could by talking. An example of this, is when a student comes to talk to me about a problem they are having with an assignment during my lunch hour.  Even though it’s the first time, I’ve sat down all day for a second, I know that by putting aside my sandwich, and stopping what I was doing to focus wholly on them, I am demonstrating that they matter to me. Often times, it is during these moments, that the topic of conversation shifts from the minor assignment issue to what is really troubling them in other areas of their life. By listening, we show we care more than we ever could by jumping in and trying to problem solve.  It is sometimes hard to not want to problem solve, especially if we’ve been there and done that. A funny example of listening without trying to problem solve is this short video entitled ‘It’s Not About the Nail’. However, we all know that the best gift we can give someone else is to show them care and empathy by just listening.

Another principle of servant leadership that is most dear to my heart is empathy. Empathy according to Northouse (2019) is, “being able to stand in the shoes of another person and attempting to see the world from that person’s point of view. Empathetic servant leaders demonstrate that they truly understand what followers are thinking and feeling. When a servant leader shows empathy, it is confirming and validating for the follower. It makes the follower feel unique (p. 229)”.  When I think of empathy, I automatically think of Brené Brown. I love her message and have read all of her books and watched all of her Tedtalks on Youtube. If you haven’t had the opportunity to check out some of her writing, I strongly recommend her! She talks about empathy in one of her Tedtalks. You can see the short clip here.  In our busy lives, we sometimes want to provide the easy fix. It takes courage to be vulnerable ourselves to reach a place where we can genuinely empathize with others and what they are going through. Brené shares in her video clip that empathy connects people and refers to it as “feeling with people”.  In her Tedtalk, she says that there are 4 components to empathy; perspective, staying out of judgement, recognizing emotion and communicating that to others.  As an educator, empathy plays a huge role in my daily interactions with students. Not just in my demonstrating it, but in helping to teach empathy.  We had a guest speaker (Kevin Brooks) come in and talk to the grade 12’s about his experience living life as a paralyzed young man.  His paralysis was the result of a car accident from which he was the driver.  His decision to drive while under the influence, cost the life of his best friend who was his passenger as well as his own ability to ever walk again. He shared how much he took for granted before his accident, how he wasn’t aware before just how much his actions and choices could affect others. He talked about how the grace and forgiveness of his friend’s parents and how hard it has been for him to know that he was responsible for taking the life of his friend.  Throughout his honest and pain wrenching talk, the room full of almost 400 students was so silent, you could have heard a pin drop. By the end, students were in tears and wriggling their own toes, grateful that they still could. At the front of the room stood a lone empty chair. It represented the life lost. Students pictured their own friends and family members, and felt empathy for this young man who once was a high performing athlete, now strapped into his wheelchair so he wouldn’t topple out.  It was a lesson in empathy. Students mourned for this man who was a stranger to them only an hour prior.  It gave me hope for the future and for society. Empathy definitely has a ripple affect and allows for kindness to be paid forward and for community to be built.

I am looking forward to my journey of becoming a better servant leader. I know I have a long way to go still, but am thankful for the examples of others who are willing to be vulnerable and courageous in its pursuit like my Dad was and Brenè Brown is.

How can we encourage empathy in our day to day interactions within our organizations as we practice servant leadership?

 

 

Blog Post 2 – Managers & Leaders

What distinguishes an assigned leader from an emerging one?

According to Northouse (2019), assigned leaders are those within our organizations who have been given a formal title, like Department Heads or Team Leaders. A title, however, does not guarantee influence. Some of the most influential people within an organization, do not have an assigned title. These people are referred to by Northouse (2019) as being emergent leaders. These are the people who when they speak up at staff meetings, other people stop and listen. They gather followers over a period of time due to their personable nature, likability factor and ability to communicate effectively. Specifically, these people are noticeably involved, informed, seek opinions, initiate new ideas and are firm but not rigid in their viewpoint (Northouse, 2019).  The closer someone appears to be fit in with the group’s objective, the more likely someone with the above characteristics will emerge as a leader (Northouse, 2019). I don’t know about you, but I find that when it comes to forming groups or teams (especially when it comes to content with which I might not be very familiar),  I am always drawn to working with those individuals who are confident, and who appear to know their stuff well, who are easygoing and approachable.  These are personality traits Northouse (2019) mentions  that were found to be directly related to leadership emergence in Smith and Foti’s (1998) study of 160 male college students.  They specially narrowed down their results to three primary traits; confidence, dominance and intelligence (Northouse, 2019, p.8).

Before this year, I didn’t know a lot about Career Education at the high school level. In fact, I had never even taught in a high school.  After teaching elementary and middle school,  I decided one day that  I would really like to teach in a high school.  So when a brand new opportunity opened up, I leaped at it!  After a two and a half hour long interview, I was offered the position.  As excited as I was, I was very nervous and felt woefully inadequate. I read everything that I could get my hands on and relied on my professional network as a sounding board and a place to ask questions.  I attended every single meeting and conference that I could.  A lot of these meetings take place at the School Board Office with representatives from other high schools and members of the District Instructional team.  I began to feel more confident in my knowledge of the curriculum, and was happy to share the highs and lows of Career Education that we were experimenting with and experiencing at my high school.  It hasn’t  been an easy year trying out new ideas and embedding new curriculum, and I was really vulnerable in sharing some of the challenges that were faced.  I was a little bit surprised when other members started to email me questions, asked to meet with me outside of these meetings to learn more about what we were doing, and began to ask to be a part of my group during meetings. Less than seven months in,  I have now been invited to be a part of the District team in creating new curriculum outline drafts and to speak at the province wide Career Education conference in Vancouver next year.  I am actually amazed and to be brutally honest, I feel rather fraudulent as I think I still have so much to learn from others.  I’m about to be very vulnerable in admitting that what is most interesting to me is that while I have gained recognition as an emerging leader by individuals at other schools and within the school district,  I am struggling at times to build credibility in my career role within my own school with staff members.  This is something that I would like to examine further and reflect as to why that is and what I can do better.

Are managers considered leaders?  Can one exist without the other?

I became most excited while reading Northouse’s differentiation between management and leadership, at one point even writing the word ‘YES!’ in huge capital letters with a huge exclamation point and underlined twice for special emphasis in the blank space at the side of the page.  What I was reading made perfect sense to me!  I could personally relate to what he was referring to on several levels.

There seems to be a misconception that exists, that if someone has the title of Manager that they are the leader. While, most of us have had the opportunity to work with people who are great at keeping order and stability in our workplaces and at managing , it is important to note that just because someone is a great manager of procedures and information, it does not mean that they are a leader. Northouse (2019) explains, that management was only created at the start of the 20th century as a means to provide structure and assist with creating order out of chaos. In contrast, leadership is a centuries old method of producing positive change and upward mobility (Northouse, 2019).

That’s not to say, one can exist without the other. They are co-dependent as Northouse (2019) states when he quotes Kotter (1990, pp. 7-8);

“Both management and leadership are essential if an organization is to prosper. To be effective, organizations need to nourish both competent management and skilled leadership (Northouse, 2019, p.12)”.

Steve Jobs is the classic example of a leader who was visionary in his approach, able to see the big picture,  and align the people to build the teams. He was inspiring and energizing to listen to and his employees were empowered to be creative. Once a vision was established, Steve Jobs left the rest of the day to day organizational tasks to his management team and he continued to concentrate on creating positive change. A young Steve Jobs talks about this here.  These are all functions that Northouse (2019) clearly defines and outlines in an easy to read chart form.  Managers plan and budget where leaders establish direction; managers organize and staff while leaders align people; managers control and solve problems while leaders motivate and inspire (Northouse, 2019).  He summarizes by stating simply that, “Management produces order and consistency while leadership produces change and movement (Northouse, 2019, p. 13)”.  Bennis and Nanus (2007) whom Northouse (2019) refers to, stated that; “to manage means to accomplish activities and master routines, whereas to lead means to influence others and create visions for change (p.13).”

One of my favourite things that Northouse (2019) shares is his quote also from Bennis and Nanus (2007), while distinguishing the difference between managers and leaders;  “Managers are people who do things right and leaders are people who do the right thing (p. 13)”.   This was key for me. Doing things right isn’t always the right thing! How many times have we heard the familiar,  impassionate, deadpan reply, “We’ve always done it this way” or “That’s how things are done here” whenever we’ve questioned a process. Leaders don’t just continue to do what has always been done, but they are able to look beyond the here and the now and can create vision and see the big picture.

I thoroughly enjoyed the exploration of Simonet and Tett’s study (2012) that Northouse (2019) refers to  where  “Leadership was distinguished by motivating intrinsically, creative thinking, strategic planning, tolerance of ambiguity, and being able to read people. Management was distinguished by rule orientation, short-term planning, motivating extrinsically, orderliness, safety concerns,  and timelines (p. 14).” This especially appealed to me on a personal level as I sometimes  run into and can become quite frustrated by what I would have perceived as managerial roadblocks before reading this chapter.  I found myself initially shaking my head in agreement at what Northouse (2019) shares about Zaleznik (1977), and his findings that; “managers tend to be reactive, have low emotional involvement and limit choices whereas leaders are emotionally active and involved (p. 14)”.  However, after reflecting and digesting the material, I am able to acknowledge and respect the need for both management and leadership within an organization in order to be successful, and understand that both managers and leaders can influence others in their specific capacities.   I appreciated the opportunity to challenge some of my previous misconceptions and stereotyping that I was guilty of at times. Leaders and managers both serve a purpose and those purposes do overlap in order to successfully meet an organization’s common objectives and goals.

Do you ever find yourself chafing at what feels like stifling organizational rules that you see as limiting potential and being reactive instead of proactive?  As it pertains to Bennis and Nanus’ quote “Managers are people who do things right and leaders are people who do the right thing (2007, p. 221).” How would you (after giving it some time to observe and reflect) as an emerging leader (or an assigned leader) question process and promote change respectfully?

 

 

 

“Leadership is a process whereby an individual influences a group of individuals to achieve a common goal (Northouse, 2018, p. 5)”.

As I settled into my armchair,  cracked open and began to read Chapter One of  Leadership Theory and Practice (Northouse, 2019), I became so absorbed that my coffee began to get cold on the table beside me.  I began excitedly scribbling notes in the side columns as I read and found myself identifying and applying what Northouse was sharing to my own personal journey as well as to leaders that I have both admired and profoundly disliked. 

According to Northouse (2019), “Leadership is a process whereby an individual influences a group of individuals to achieve a common goal (p.5)”.  Northouse’s definition of leadership succinctly clarifies three key aspects of leadership. Firstly, (and what stood out to me the most), is that it is a process. We often hear that people are ‘born leaders’, however, Northouse (2019) stipulates that leadership is not restricted generally to inbred traits, but rather it is a process that is available to everyone and is built through our interactions and relationships with others. It isn’t necessarily dependent upon position or title, but how we communicate with others. Secondly, a leader has the ability to influence others. It goes without saying that  you can’t be a leader unless you have a group of individuals (followers) to influence; “Leadership is not a linear, one-way event, but rather an interactive event (Northouse, 2019, p.5).”  Without influence, leadership simply does not exist. Thirdly, a leader needs to work with individuals towards a common goal. If you’re not working towards a common goal, it is not influence but rather coercion for the leader’s own singular goal (Northouse, 2019).

I love the use of the word process as it suggests an ongoing journey and emphasizes that it is not a one-stop ideal. It isn’t restricted to inbred traits, or positional titles and can be learned.  I especially appreciated the reference to leadership being a “transformational process that moves followers to accomplish more than is usually expected of them (Northouse, 2019, p. 5)”.  I immediately thought of the football coach from the death crawl scene in Facing the Giants who during practice one day challenged a player to carry another player on his back and crab walk 25 metres while blindfolded.  The player wanted to quit so many times, however, the push and encouragement of his coach caused the player to dig deep and apply grit he never knew he had and as a result, (to the player’s own amazement and the rest of the team who were watching), the player ended up crab walking the length of the entire football field!  Watch it here. Transformational process allows leaders to bring about change in a group and inspire others to work diligently towards a common goal.  This is the kind of transformational leader I would like to aspire to be.

Power is a fascinating word because it sometimes seems to automatically depict certain images in our minds, most of them associated with negative connotations of leaders (at least for me anyways) like Hitler, the Taliban and even Donald Trump. The kinds of people who use influence to negatively control other people. However, after reading Northouse’s (2019) description of the two different kinds of power, (personal and positional) and how they fit into the six different bases of power, I began to view the word power from a different lens. Instead of viewing it as something negative, I began to see it as something positive and a way that leaders can help make a genuine difference in helping influence others to achieve a common goal. To be clear,  power is not dominance over others. True power comes from the building of relationships and the ability to communicate effectively. Northouse (2019), discusses power as a way to promote meeting collective group goals. What I most appreciated was the emphasis on the interrelationship between followers and leaders when it comes to the perception of power; “Leaders are not above or better than followers. Leaders and followers must be understood in relation to each other (Hollander, 1992) and collectively (Burns, 1978). They  are in the leadership relationship together and are two sides of the same coin (Northouse,  2019, p.6)”.   As I read further, I began to make personal connections to myself and leaders I have known and worked with.  It never ceases to amaze me, how some people are drawn to the myth of power like moths to a flame. A title, while providing positional power, does not guarantee that the person holding said title is a genuine leader or respected as one.  As an educator, I work in a system where there are individuals in roles who hold legitimate positional power over others, like Principals and Vice-Principals or the Superintendent of Education.  I have worked with a lot of administrators who I deeply admire and respect for their actions, their ability to inspire change and to create vision and their ability to bring people together. However, there are others, who through their titles,  have the capacity to reward or punish certain team members, who are the gatekeepers of important information which they can choose to dole out as they see fit and who have also been known to be coercive to push their own agendas (which are not necessarily beneficial for the team as a whole). On the “other side of the coin” (Northouse, 2019, p. 6),  there are also leaders on staff who don’t have a formal title but due to their knowledge base and likability factor they have amassed a following of their own, whether they are aware of this or not.  They are looked up to because their followers believe that these leaders have something of value to share that benefits the team and the common goals.  These people according to Northouse (2019), possess personal power.  I have had the opportunity to have been on both sides of this coin and will discuss that more in our next post on assigned and emergent leaders.

In order to be a leader, you need to have a group. If you don’t have a group, you don’t have anyone to influence towards a common goal. Without anyone to influence, you don’t have leadership. “Leadership occurs in groups. Leadership is about one individual influencing a group of others to accomplish common goals (Northouse, 2019, p. 6)”. Groups of people are always interesting to observe. There are always the loud, outspoken individuals, the quiet ones, the knowledgable ones, the creative ones, the skilled ones and the confident ones. In order to stand out as leader and be able to influence others, one be must able to communicate.  Communication is key to building relationships, asking questions, sharing knowledge, initiating new ideas and keeping informed.  Communication is essential in determining the will of a group and setting and working towards a common goal. If a person is unable to communicate, they will not be able to gain the confidence of the group or be viewed as helpful in  the development of a common goal to work towards.  People naturally are drawn to those who have referent and expert power bases and who use that power to work towards the common goals of the group.  I know those are the people that I am drawn to and look to for guidance and direction. The more a leader can communicate that they are in tune with the group prototype, the more a person will be perceived as an emerging leader (Northouse, 2019, p. 8) and be able to successfully influence others.

My take away from Northouse’s introduction to leadership is that influence,  power, process, groups and goal attainment are all necessary pieces of the leadership puzzle. You can’t fit it all together if one piece is missing. Without a  group, there is no one to influence. Without a common goal to work towards, it’s not leadership, but coercion at best. And most importantly, leadership is a process, not a one stop deal.

I found it interesting that Northouse (2019, p. 11) linked referent power and expert power bases in his chart to personal power and deliberately kept them separate from positional power.  I’m sure we all know leaders who have positional power but who also hold large influence due to their likability and knowledge base (former US President, Barack Obama comes to mind).  Do you think these referent and expert based positional leaders are in the minority? What has your experience been with positional leaders possessing these power bases?

 

All About Me

Hey all,

Thanks for joining me on my walk through the woods and my educational journey of self-discovery.  I can’t wait to get started!

A good place to get started, would be introducing myself! I get called a few things these days;  ‘Mom’ (usually hollered from one level of the house to another),  ‘Ms.Lacroix’ and ‘Lara’.  My pet peeve is being referred to as ‘Laura’ when people respond to emails and my name is RIGHT THERE in front of them.  Sigh. The book/movie Dr. Zhivago was big when I was born and that’s where my name originates from.  Truth: I actually have never read the book nor watched the movie.   I probably should one of these days.

Professionally, I’m a proud teacher.  It’s something I have wanted to do since I was 5 years old. To say that I love my vocation would be a massive understatement! I currently teach Grade 12 Work Experience and Grad Transitions and am also the Career Education Department Head and Facilitator for Grades 9-12 at my school.  Before that, I taught Grade 8 for several years and had the privilege of getting to know and work with at risk students. That experience has helped transform me to become the teacher I am today.  I have been blessed to have had the opportunity to teach in several elementary schools, a middle school and most recently a high school.  It is nice to know the background and skill set knowledge that aids in scaffolding of material which helps enable student transition from one level to the next.

Personally, I’m the proud mom of 2 amazing kids (20 and 17 years old), a floppy eared German Shepherd dog and 2 hamsters.  I love to camp, hike, read, explore new places, be outdoors, eat and laugh (not necessarily in that order)!

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