My Leadership Story

My Leadership Story

I’ve shared my leadership story from being a kid who suffered from anxiety and depression to starting my own support group for mental health awareness. This is a very personal story, and I’m blessed to have such supportive fellow students that I feel safe sharing this story. I have talked many times over these ten weeks about my passion for helping others and to do something especially for mental health awareness. Making this podcast was another first time experience for me, and I’m grateful for all thing new things I got to learn and do in this course. I’m attaching the audio file here, and I’ll just let it tell the rest of the story.

Unit 10: Learning Activity

“Let me not neglect any kindness, for I shall not pass that way again”. (Watson,1951)

It was tough to pick one quote from the whole course because so many things have moved me and I’ve learned so much, but this quote does stand out. Being kind is the most important virtue of a leader and especially a servant leader. To never neglect and to acknowledge acts of kindness is even more critical. Gratitude can transform lives in such a positive way. I write a gratitude journal before going to bed, and I write down every small and big thing I’m grateful for, and it has made such a significant impact on my life. Acts of kindness are contagious, and they make others act kind as well. At least for me, this was the case as I learned to be kind by watching people be kind to me.

This course has been highly insightful and enlightening, and I discovered a lot of things. I’m immensely inspired by the idea of transformational servant leadership. This is a very new concept for me even though I’ve practiced it in the past but I had never read about it. Reading it made me feel more sure about the path that I have chosen. Greenleaf defines servant leadership as a natural feeling that one wants to serve, to serve first. Then conscious choice brings one to aspire to lead (Northouse,2016). I have always been passionate to serve people, and this is why I chose health care and to combine compassion with leadership is a fantastic tool for the upliftment of people. I learned that you have to take care of your followers. There are so many layers of leadership and how you are tested at every step. Like Coleen Barret said, “Leadership is not a title. Leadership is a way of life”. I read and wrote about so many inspiring leaders, and each of them has something unique to teach. The concept of transformational leadership was another thing that resonates with me well.

Transformational leadership is defined as a process whereby a person engages with others and creates a connection that raises the level of motivation and morality in both the leader and the follower (Northouse,2016). This suggests that leadership is not just about sitting on a throne and ruling others, but it is about working towards the betterment of your team and oneself. Real leadership is about motivating your followers and help them attain their full potential. To help them transcend any limits and doing more than what they thought they were capable of. It is about being compassionate and kind. Transformational leadership is about forming a vision for your organization that will benefit everyone and presenting it to everyone and motivating them to achieve it.

All in all, I’ve concluded that transformational servant leadership is an unstoppable force and it can bring about incredible changes in the world if used wisely. I will surely do my best to become an excellent transformational servant leader myself and work on the shortcomings that I realized I have by learning more about it and at the same time enhance my strengths.

“Let me not neglect any kindness, for I shall not pass that way again”. (Watson,1951)

References

Northouse, P.G. (2016).  Leadership: Theory and Practice. Thousand Oaks, CA:  Sage Publications, Inc.

Watson, L.E. (1951). Light from Many Lamps. New York, NY: Simon and Schuster, Inc.

Light From Many Lamps: I Catch A Dreaming Glimpse Of Peace

“Beyond the vision of battling races and an impoverished earth, I catch a dreaming glimpse of peace.” (Watson,1951)

This is the story of Justice Oliver Wendell Holmes and his positive vision about future. Justice Holmes was a man whose roots were deep in the American tradition, a man who loved life, believed in people and had enormous faith in the future. The nation’s press often referred to him as “The greatest living American,” and Cheif Justice Taft called him “the most brilliant and learned member of the court” (Watson,1951). He had lived through half of his country’s history, and he had seen many dark hours, many periods of trial and crisis, blazing hatred and distrust but he had never lost faith in future, and now, as he grew older, that faith was stronger than ever (Watson,1951).

I could relate to this story very well as I have always been strongly optimistic in the hardest times of my life. I remember whenever I would hit rock bottom I would simply pray and say that if God gave me this problem, then he will also guide me through it and provide me with the strength required to do so. I’m a firm believer, and I believe that God is the ultimate parent of every human as he created everything and everyone so no matter what how testing times may get, he will show us the way out and teach us the lessons we need to learn. Many people talk about how the future of humanity is doomed, and there is no hope, but I don’t agree because there is so much growth happening every day. It is more about if you want to see it as half glass full or half glass empty.

Holmes once quoted Emerson, “A great perplexity hangs over us like a cloud. We mistrust every step we take. It is not that men do not wish to act; they are paralyzed by fear and uncertainty. We must think with courage” (Watson,1951). These words are so powerful and true. Uncertainty and fear can paralyze people and stop them from acting and in tough times acting with courage is the key to navigate through it. In his eighties, Justice Holmes said, “If I were dying my last words would be: Have faith and pursue the unknown” (Watson,1951). Justice Holmes has been an inspiration throughout his life and after. I’m deeply affected by his words, and they have a way renewed my faith. The world needs more leaders like him.

“We must search behind the popular discontent to find its cause. We must attack our problems with courage and with faith. We must look ahead-plan and build for a better world-blaze new trails of brotherhood and understanding.” (Watson,1951)

References

Watson, L.E. (1951). Light from Many Lamps. New York, NY: Simon and Schuster, Inc.