Light From Many Lamps: I Catch A Dreaming Glimpse Of Peace

“Beyond the vision of battling races and an impoverished earth, I catch a dreaming glimpse of peace.” (Watson,1951)

This is the story of Justice Oliver Wendell Holmes and his positive vision about future. Justice Holmes was a man whose roots were deep in the American tradition, a man who loved life, believed in people and had enormous faith in the future. The nation’s press often referred to him as “The greatest living American,” and Cheif Justice Taft called him “the most brilliant and learned member of the court” (Watson,1951). He had lived through half of his country’s history, and he had seen many dark hours, many periods of trial and crisis, blazing hatred and distrust but he had never lost faith in future, and now, as he grew older, that faith was stronger than ever (Watson,1951).

I could relate to this story very well as I have always been strongly optimistic in the hardest times of my life. I remember whenever I would hit rock bottom I would simply pray and say that if God gave me this problem, then he will also guide me through it and provide me with the strength required to do so. I’m a firm believer, and I believe that God is the ultimate parent of every human as he created everything and everyone so no matter what how testing times may get, he will show us the way out and teach us the lessons we need to learn. Many people talk about how the future of humanity is doomed, and there is no hope, but I don’t agree because there is so much growth happening every day. It is more about if you want to see it as half glass full or half glass empty.

Holmes once quoted Emerson, “A great perplexity hangs over us like a cloud. We mistrust every step we take. It is not that men do not wish to act; they are paralyzed by fear and uncertainty. We must think with courage” (Watson,1951). These words are so powerful and true. Uncertainty and fear can paralyze people and stop them from acting and in tough times acting with courage is the key to navigate through it. In his eighties, Justice Holmes said, “If I were dying my last words would be: Have faith and pursue the unknown” (Watson,1951). Justice Holmes has been an inspiration throughout his life and after. I’m deeply affected by his words, and they have a way renewed my faith. The world needs more leaders like him.

“We must search behind the popular discontent to find its cause. We must attack our problems with courage and with faith. We must look ahead-plan and build for a better world-blaze new trails of brotherhood and understanding.” (Watson,1951)

References

Watson, L.E. (1951). Light from Many Lamps. New York, NY: Simon and Schuster, Inc.

Light From Many Lamps: I Rave No More ‘Gainst Time Or Fate, For, Lo! My Own Shall Come To Me

“Serene, I fold my hands and wait, Nor care for wind or tide, or sea; I rave no more ‘gainst Time or Fate, For, lo! my own shall come to me.” (Watson,1951)

The most significant conquest of life is to find one’s purpose. This is an inspiring story of a man named John Burroughs, in mid-twenties who has been teaching all his life wanting to become a doctor because he thought that this is what he wanted and he would be able to support his wife better, and she’ll be happier with a more paying job. It was just the matter of time that he realized medical books bored him and he was doing this to impress his wife and for more money. He stumbled upon his true passion then, to be a writer and this time he was sure. This is the thing about passion, it outweighs everything else, and it comes with contentment.

I have this fear in me of not finding what I truly love. I was mere 18 years of age when I started my Bachelors of Dental Surgery, and after five years of hard work, I became a dentist. While pursuing my internship I came across the fact that I undoubtedly love serving people and spreading smiles but being a dentist is not my ultimate goal in life. I did not want to make any fast decisions, so I went to Virginia to live with my cousin sister who is a dentist at the University of Virginia for two months. While I was there, I cracked my National Board Dental Examination part 1 as well. Everyone was telling me about how bright a dentist’s future is and how much they earn. Those two months were real eye openers for me, living with my cousin I could shadow her life. It was the life I was looking at as my future, and that is when I could not deny anymore that I did not want to be a dentist anymore. This was just the start; next question was then what do I do with my life as my whole education has been devoted to this field. After a lot of brainstorming, TEDx talks, talking to people who I trust and self-analysis I came to a decision that I was more inclined towards administration and entrepreneurship. I’m grateful that my parents were more than supportive of my choice and sometimes they believe in my vision more than I can because they can truly see my passion just when I talk about it. As Robin Sharma says, “Change is hard at first, messy in the middle and beautiful at the end.” This professional epiphany has influenced all of my decisions, and this is what led me to move to Canada and take this course. At 23, I’m still transitioning, and sometimes I feel like I don’t know what is happening but again, there is a feeling of eternal content, a faith that everything will work out and the surety that God is guiding me towards something bigger and better.

So I’m on a quest of finding the best version of myself. I firmly believe in a concept by Jay Shetty in which he describes the things you need to take in context to find your purpose and they are; find what you love, find what you are good at, find how it will serve the world and figure out how you’ll get paid for it. I’ve been continuously thinking critically about this concept, and I base a lot of my decisions on this as well. So, I could relate a lot to John Burroughs, and I hope I accomplish great things in life as well. I’m not sure what future holds, but I have complete faith in God, and I’m determined to not leave any stone unturned in making sure I fulfill my purpose and make a positive impact on the lives of people around me as a true servant leader.

As stated by Watson (1951), “Don’t worry about the future, is its comforting message. Don’t be uneasy or impatient. Be calm and serene, for what is best for you will come to you in time, as surely as the tides rise and the stars shine”.

“The stars come nightly to the sky; The tidal wave unto the sea; nor time, nor space, nor deep, nor high, Can keep mine away from me.” (Watson,1951)

References

Watson, L.E. (1951). Light from Many Lamps. New York, NY: Simon and Schuster, Inc.

Light From Many Lamps: Let Me Not Neglect Any Kindness, For I Shall Not Pass That Way Again.

I shall pass through this world but once. Any good therefore that I can do, or any kindness that I can show to any human being, let me do it now. Let me not defer nor neglect it, for I shall not pass this way again (Watson,1951).

The power of inspiration is mighty and mysterious. No one knows who originally wrote this quote, but it has been variously attributed to Victor Hugo, to George Eliot, to a Quaker missionary named Stephen Grellet, and to others (Watson, 1951).  Dalai Lama once said, “My religion is very simple, my religion is the kindness.” Being kind is one of the essential virtues of a human being.

It is astonishing how this brief quotation, the words of some inspired unknown of a century or more ago, has endured, steadily increasing in influence and popularity. It is still impelling an untold number of people to be kinder and most considerate of their fellow creatures (Watson, 1951). Kindness is a strength, and it should be practiced as often as possible. Being kind to yourself is utterly important especially in today’s world when everything around us may make us feel not good enough we need to be kind to ourselves. I’ve always felt that kindness should be a vital part of education system. Last year while I was in the last year of my Bachelors in Dental Surgery i  had this idea that people need to be encouraged to be kind and they need to be reminded that there is immense joy in it. I made a compiled video of several videos in which I went up to people and told them they are beautiful and amazing and recorded their reactions. The way their faces lit up is by far one of the best feelings that I remember. The whole point was to show everyone that it is this easy to be kind and to make someone’s day and the reward is priceless. I’m attaching the link to the video here,  https://www.instagram.com/p/BcRbQCSlQ_e/?taken-by=letterstomy12yearoldself

Acknowledging acts of kindness and appreciating them is very important as they are the noblest acts. Being kind was never taught in our school. For an overpopulated country like India, the key was to compete rather than co-exist. I’ve learned about kindness by receiving it, everytime someone was kind to me, it inspired me to be kind to others, and it filled my heart with gratitude and humbled me. In past few years scenario has changed a lot and people have started to realize that kindness is the key to a better world. Your smallest act of kindness can have the deepest impact on someone’s life. Mark Twain once quoted, “Kindness is a language the deaf can hear and the blind can see”. Honestly, my ultimate goal in life is to be the kindest person I know, what is yours?

If i can stop one heart from breaking, I shall not live in vain; If i can ease one life the aching, or cool one pain, or help one fainting robin unto his nest again, I shall not live in vain. (Emily Dikinson)

References

Watson, L.E. (1951). Light from Many Lamps. New York, NY: Simon and Schuster, Inc.

Light Fom Many Lamps: The Most Precious Of Possessions

You wake up in the morning, and lo! your purse is magically filled with twenty-four hours – the most precious of possessions. (Arnold Bennett)

Where did you find the time? (Watson, 1951). This was a question frequently asked from Arnold and a question frequently asked by most of the people to any and every successful person or a leader. This story explained the importance of time and the art of utilizing it to its utmost potential. Bennett was a poverty-stricken clerk wanting to become a writer. He had nothing but time and he realized that time was his most precious commodity, time the most useful tissue of his life and that he must therefore not waste any part of it. (Watson, 1951). With hard work and spectacular time management, he became a great writer.

He was constantly asked the question about how he finds time to write and pursue all his hobbies? He answered that he did not ‘find’ time, he has the same amount of time as everybody else; exactly the same twenty-four hours. Its the way he spent it made the difference (Watson, 1951). This also led him to write his one of the most famous book called, ‘How to Live on Twenty Four Hours a Day’. This book helped so many people and answered their questions about time management and making the most out of it. This story is very relatable to me as being someone whose biggest fear is to waste time, I’ve spent a fair amount of my life trying to figure out ways to make the most of every day, every hour of my life. This is also because punctuality has been a priority not just for me but for my family, my mother always enchanted these words to me that, ‘those who do not respect time, time does not respect them’. Planning for the next day before going to bed, writing down your intentions clearly, making a to-do list for the day became a ritual in my life at a very young age. When I moved from India to Canada just a month and a half ago, I called my parents and told them that I feel like time moves faster here or it just seems like I have lesser time but every day I think I’m getting better at accomplishing my everyday goals and ticking off the things from my checklist and I know no one can master time but I’m constantly trying to get as close to it as possible. Also, Bennett said, “Time is the inexplicable raw material of everything. With it, all is possible; without it, nothing” (Watson, 1951).

When asked what is the biggest mistake you have made in your life, Buddha replied, “The biggest mistake is that we think we have time”. Jay Shetty’s video on the importance of time shared an analogy that if $86,400 were added to your bank account every day and by the end of 24 hours the remaining sum will disappear but another $86,400 will be added next day. Will you waste all the money? Then why do we waste time so easily? We tend to forget that time is more expensive than money. (Retrieved from- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vPaS85IA6oY). As Arnold Bennett said, “You have to live on this twenty-four hours of daily time. Out of it, you have to spin health, pleasure, money, content, respect and the evolution of your immortal soul. Its right use, its most effective use, is a matter of highest urgency and most thrilling actuality” (Watson, 1951). I cannot agree more with this.

You wake up every morning, and lo! your purse is magically filled with twenty four hours of the unmanufactured tissue of the universe of your life! It is yours. It is most precious of possessions. No one can take it away from you. It is unstealable. And no one recieves either more or less than you recieve. (Watson,1951)

Watson, L.E. (1988). Light from Many Lamps, (1st Fireside Edition). New York, NY: Simon and Schuster, Inc

Shetty, J.(2018) Before You Waste Time. [Retrieved from: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vPaS85IA6oY]

Assignment: Light from many lamps

ABRAHAM LINCOLN: Without Divine assistance I cannot succeed; with it I cannot fail.

This story is about Lincoln’s farewell address at Springfield, Illinois, on February 11, 1861. The speech was very brief -less than two hundred words (Watson, 1951, p.70).  It was supposed to be a very happy day for him, a day of triumph but close ones could see that he was not happy (Watson, 1951, p.69). It was a bittersweet day for him as he had been elected as the President but he was also leaving the place he was born and lived in, the people who contributed so much to his life and success. His speech was very personal and he talked about how grateful he is for all the people who have supported him throughout and how heavy and sad he feels about leaving this place and these people as he was not sure when or if he will return to Springfield (Watson, 1951, p.70). He was also aware of the challenges that awaited him as the President because the nation was in a bad state at the time and he wanted to make sure he restores the peace and harmony. The thing that stood out from his speech was how he connected with the people and the way he explained that in prayers of god they will always stay together as God is with each one of them. It was this expression of faith and trust, this firm belief that with God’s help he could not fail, which sets Lincoln’s words at Springfield apart and gave them the unmistakable quality of inspiration, radiant and enduring. (Watson, 1951, p70).

Abraham Lincoln was one of the great leaders and he was indeed a servant leader. He believed in serving the world and was against dominance. What made me pick this story out of the book is the quote on the very first page by Abraham Lincoln that says, “Most folks are as happy as they make up their minds to be” (Watson, 1951, p.1). The is so much to learn from Lincoln and he exhibits so many amazing leadership traits. He was very perceptive and determined. He was also empathetic and sensitive as his farewell speech reflects that’s clear. In this particular story, I learned that being a leader you should be selfless and work for the greater good and not shy away from making sacrifices for it. Another important leadership lesson that can be learned here is the importance of being sensitive towards other people and being forever grateful for their contributions and connecting with them on a deeper level. Above all, this story is a great example of leadership, sacrifices, empathy, and determination and it teaches about never forgetting where you came from.

This story has impacted my life to a great extent. It was a gentle reminder that to lead is to serve. His thoughts about connecting through prayer and god hold a great relevance in my life. “Without divine assistance I cannot succeed; with it I cannot fail” (Watson, 1951, p.70), these words have a great impact on my life and I have always practiced this. I’m from a Sikh family and I’m a strong believer and there are words in the Sikh holy book that resonate with this message strongly. Furthermore, I loved his statement about happiness and I find it to be very true. This story has been an enlightening and insightful experience and I would certainly read more about Abraham Lincoln and his ideas and theories