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Month: September 2018 (Page 1 of 2)
There are a several opinion leaders I admire and in doing this assignment, I realized I actually do not follow many of them on social media, which is something that I would like to do after finishing this assignment!
When it comes to social media, I am mostly on Instagram and Facebook, but there is one blog I follow by a Canadian pastor, Carey Nieuwhof, that I have found helpful in my context of leading a Christian ministry. I follow him on his instagram and on his blog, which I subscribe to and receive directly to my email account.
The reason I was drawn to Nieuwhof’s material, was because it was super helpful, practical, strategic and tailored to ministry leaders. I appreciate the way he writes, because it is usually: “5 keys to X” or “10 lessons on Y.” I like this kind of structure and writing as it is easy to read and take in. Also the titles tend to draw me in out of curiosity. His aim that he articulates on his website is to help ministry leaders “thrive in life and leadership” (Nieuwhof, n.d.). I really appreciated how he opened up about his experience with burnout and other issues he has had as a Christian leader in some of his blogs. There were also some really helpful blogs he wrote on time management and he occasionally offers online seminars.
Two significant ideas that this leader espouses are:
1) Helping leaders overcome obstacles (internal and external).
2) The importance of strategy as a ministry leader.
Helping Leaders Overcome Obstacles
In regards to overcoming obstacles, I relate to these as a ministry leader and in my personality. I often see potential in people and organizations and can sometimes identify what the barriers are to growth. Therefore, I relate to the way Nieuwhof thinks and I want to grow my skills in identifying barriers and communicating them. I find from some of his blogs I am learning to be sharper in this skill.
Personally, overcoming obstacles, is something that I seek to do in my own life. I am aware that there are still things that hinder me from growth in my relationship with God and as a leader. I find Nieuwhof’s blogs sometimes help identify those areas, so I can become aware, confess, pray, obey and invite the Holy Spirit to transform me. One example, is one of his blogs on pride, which I found enlightening, challenging and convicting.
Importance of Strategy as a Ministry Leader
Nieuwhof seems to get a lot of flak for this aspect of his writing, as I think some ministry leaders struggle with his focus on quality, growth, numbers and size. I understand their struggle, but personally, when I read his blogs on strategy, I see his heart being that he wants churches and ministries to improve in quality, so more people can know Jesus. I think he believes that God works in powerful ways and does not need us, but he is also aware of the reality that churches and ministries tend to be unattractive to the unchurched. I also appreciate and have learned from this focus on quality and relating to the culture, especially when it comes to his blogs on better communication in preaching or on social media.
The advice I would give Nieuwhof, is to be careful of his wording and tone at times. Occasionally in his blogs, there can be harshness, an edge or a slight tone of arrogance that could cause reactions from people. Personally, I sometimes get put-off by it, but I still think there is value to the things he writes. I have also noticed on some of his recent blogs that his frustrations seem to be coming out towards his critics. I cannot imagine how tough it must be to have critics and we are human, so no judgement. I have just noticed some subtle shots fired at critics in some recent blogs. I appreciate his vulnerability in some of those posts though, showing that he is human and criticism is not easy.
I appreciate Niewhof’s values, ethics and principles in the area of helping leaders and ministries grow and thrive and how he shares some of his own journey as a Christian leader. Personally, God is leading me into a season, where he wants me to learn more skills in the area of ministry strategy and growth, so I think Niewhof is a good resource. I do not agree with everything he writes and I make sure to discern the things I question, which I think everyone should do with every leader! Putting leaders on a pedestal can be a very dangerous thing to do and it is important to never stop thinking critically about what your pastor or leaders says. Leaders are human and they do not always have it right. I think Niewhof is succeeding in what he is aiming to do, which is providing resources to Christian leaders to help them thrive and grow.
Monica
References
Nieuwhof, Carey. (n.d). Carey Nieuwhof. Retrieved from https://careynieuwhof.com/.
Nieuwhof, Carey. (n.d). 5 habits that reveal you’re a prideful leader (and 5 keys to humility). Retrieved from https://careynieuwhof.com/5-habits-that-reveal-youre-a-prideful-leader-5-keys-to-humility/.
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Here is the link to Chris Vacher article on Activity 4. I enjoyed reading his article and thought it was a really good point that he made that assigned leadership is top down, while emergent is bottom up, I also found his question very relatable and a good reflection:
As a leader, do you find yourself more comfortable when you are the assigned leader or the emergent leader?
I realized in reflecting on that question, that I am more comfortable as an assigned leader. I think the reason is that having a clear position gives me a sense of security in my role and what I can and cannot do.
I remember when I was an emerging leader, that I always worried about over-stepping or coming across too strong to the leaders I worked with. When leadership is assigned there are clearer expectations and boundaries I seem to thrive more. When I did the Birkman test, I came out as having a high Freedom score, but I do need some structure or at least knowing what is expected of me. I think this is because my Birkman score on Authority is fairly high. I generally respect authority, although I find myself often wanting to push against it. This was a really interesting question to reflect on and it made me wonder if that insecurity I have stems from a deeper issue in my life or if it is just a personality thing, like my Birkman might show. Probably a bit of both?
I know in leadership something that makes me feel insecure and I struggle with, is when I feel disrespected by team members. This usually happens when boundaries are pushed or crossed and expectations that I clarified are not met.
Question: What have you noticed makes you feel insecure as a leader?
Monica
Three principles of Servant Leadership I want to highlight are: Healing, Persuasion and Building Community (Spears, 2002, pp.1-16).
Healing
The characteristic of Healing means to “care about the personal well-being of the followers” (Spears, 2002, pp.1-16). An example of this, from my experience, comes out of recognizing where the person is coming from and their past experiences. There have been cases where I have taken people onto my team, who have either come from toxic ministry situations recently or in the past. In one of these situations, I found the experience that this person had come from, to be similar to one I had been through and was still healing from. Listening to this individual’s experience and being able to offer advice and support, was a healing experience for me as I worked through the situation I had dealt with.
Persuasion
“Persuasion is clear and persistent communication that convinces others to change” (Spears, 2002, pp.1-16). Recently, the ministry organization I am with, have rolled out a lot of changes. We are entering a season of adaptive change and part of my role as a team leader was to communicate those changes to our staff team this summer. This communication required persuasion and that meant I had to be clear on what the changes actually were and also highlight the need for them to happen. In regards to the implications of the changes I wanted to invite our staff team into that process to explore and to join us in discovering what to do next, not to look to myself and the other ministry leader to have all the answers.
Building Community
I enjoy building community and this comes naturally to me. An example of this is in our ministry team we take time to do something fun together, at least once a month as a team, during work hours. This allows us to build a sense of community through shared experiences. We also take time at the end of every ministry year to go away and do a staff retreat together in one big house for a week. This is a great time of bonding, where we share openly and grow in a sense of unity as a team. I have also found praying for each others needs in our team check-in time is a way for team members to feel connected and support each other (Spears, 2002, pp.1-16).
I think currently the principle that will be most challenging for me to consistently realize in my context is Persuasion, because as the characteristic is described it requires “clear and persistent communication that convinces others to change” (Spears, 2002, pp.1-16). The persistent part is what will be most challenging because of all the other priorities I have in my ministry role. The only way things are going to change, is to persistently communicating the need for change and give my team space to explore and try new ideas. The couple meetings we had as a team, are not going to facilitate adaptive change happening, we need to come back to our need for adaptive change over and over for something to really change.
Question: In your experience, what were some barriers that hindered your team or organization from changing?
Monica
Northouse, P. G. (2018). Leadership: theory and practice (8th ed.). Thousand Oaks: Sage Publications.
Spears, L.C. (2002). Tracing the past, present, and future of servant-leadership. In L.C. Spears & M. Lawrence (Eds.), Focus on leadership: Servant-leadership for the 21st century (pp. 1-16). New York, NY: Wiley.
To quote Northouse (2018), “Assigned leadership is based on a formal title or position in an organization. Emergent leadership results from what one does and how one acquires support from followers” (p. 15).
There have been several instances where I “emerged” as a leader. One particular instance was a couple years ago when I was overseas on a mission trip with the organization I do ministry with. The two leaders (directors) gave me a fairly large role on the mission trip and I accomplished it well. I also helped organize other aspects of the trip and sometimes would be thinking ahead and reminding the directors of things we needed to get done. The directors expressed appreciation for the role I played and how I supported them. Through leading in my role on my team and helping take responsibility for other parts of the trip, that were not expected of me, I demonstrated emergent leadership to the directors and other team members. The following year I was asked to co-direct that same trip.
The section on managers and leaders was very interesting, Bennis and Nanus (2007) described the difference as the following:
“To manage means to accomplish activities and master routines, whereas to lead means to influence others and create visions for change” ( p.221).
I identified that my ministry organization has a very combined approach to their assigned leadership roles. Their roles often entail both management and leadership combined. However, I have found that the management side always seems takes over and it becomes 80% management, 20% leadership. There are good changes being made, but there is still a constant barrage of management tasks do, as well as national and local priorities that still make management a huge part of the role.
Personally, I appreciated Zaleznik’s (1977) viewpoint that narrowed it to the fact that managers and leaders should be distinct (p. 14). I have been thinking about what that would look like in my ministry context. Potentially we could have an assigned managers and an assigned leader who leads a team together. This could be a personal bias, but because I naturally lean towards leadership, I think if I had less management on my plate, I could really thrive in leadership. Our organization has entered a season of adaptive change and through this I am noticing more of my natural bent towards leadership, rather than management.
To conclude, it is clear there definitely is a difference between management and leadership. I think dependent on the context, personalities of the leaders and the goals of the team, it is important for companies and organizations to define how management and leadership interact, especially when trying to apply change. In defining how they interact, it could be decided whether to divide management and leadership between two individuals or combine it together in their assigned leadership roles.
Question: In your context, do you think there should be a distinctive management role and leadership role, for two seperate people or do you think that it should be combined into one role, for one person? Explain.
Monica
Bennis, W.G., & Nanus, B. (2007). Leaders: The strategies for taking charge (2nd ed.). New York, NY: Harper & Row.
Northouse, P. G. (2018). Leadership: theory and practice (8th ed.). Thousand Oaks: Sage Publications.
Zaleznik, A. (1977, May-June). Managers and leaders: Are they different? Harvard Business Review, 55, 67-78.
I appreciated Ryan’s blog post on Northouse’s definition of leadership linked here.
His thoughts around Northouse’s definition are centred around the relationship between the leader and the group and how this dynamic works. It was well synthesized and concise and I appreciated his comment on allowing members of the group ownership of the common goal and how this allows for the group to go further and tap into their potential.
I liked his question at the end, so I wanted to comment on it:
“How then should a leader respond to an individual who is no longer working toward the common goal?”
This is a tough question and I think it is a different answer for each person and it is situational. It depends on where the root of the issue is coming from. In my experience, it is helpful to first take a look at your interactions with the person and your leadership. Then after evaluating, have a sit down with the person. To diagnose what is going on, you could ask yourself and them:
- Have you (the leader) made the common goal (s) clear to them?
- Ask them if they understood the common goal (s) ?
- Assess: do you think they have understood and are on board with the common goal (s) of your team?
If you have a good relationship with them and trust has been built, it would be good to dive deeper and ask the following:
- If they said yes to understanding the common goal of the team, ask: is this also what they think the common goal (s) should be or do they have other ideas?
- Also ask: do you find yourself getting side-tracked by other pressing priorities? What are those?
- If they say no to understanding the common goal, dig and find out where the misunderstanding happened. It could be that you failed to communicate the common goal clear enough.
Sometimes people just need help managing priorities or knowing what is expected of them. They may hear you when you say the common goal is X, but they have many other pressing priorities that they also think you expect of them that crowd that out. Clarify expectations around the common goal always!
In assessing and asking these questions you could discover some of these 5 possible situations:
1) The person misunderstood or was not clear on the common goal of the group.
2) The person is feeling crushed by other expectations and cannot move towards the common goal.
3) The person is being deliberately defiant.
4) The person has many pressing priorities outside of work that are leaking into work. These priorities could be related to tough circumstances: physically, emotionally or relationally.
5) The person has deeper personal issues, that could be: emotional, relational or spiritual issues that are affecting them in all aspects of life.
In relation to 1 & 2, they are easier to correct. Situations 3, 4 and 5 may be longer processes and not easy to work through.
I find the stronger the common goal and direction, the clearer it is who is really on board. When goals, mission and vision are not clear, its easier for people on a team to do their own thing and have their own priorities.
QUESTION: What would you do if situations 3, 4 and 5 were the case with a person on your team? You can answer for just one of the situations.
Monica
Northouse, P. G. (2018). Leadership: theory and practice (8th ed.). Thousand Oaks: Sage Publications.
Northouse (2018) states this definition in regards to leadership:
“Leadership is a process whereby an individual influences a group of individuals to achieve a common goal” (p. 5).
In regards to this definition five components are mentioned: process, power, influence, group context and goal attainment (Northouse, 2018, pp. 5-6; 9-11).
Process
Northouse (2018) talks about leadership as a process that is available to all members of a group (p.5). Leadership is not based in a trait or characteristic of one designated leader, but is an ongoing interaction between leaders and followers (Northouse, 2018, p. 5).
I agree with this description and as a leader of a campus ministry I see this aspect of process in my staff, interns and students lives. The process of them growing into leaders is a journey and always a surprising one. Right away, some people have clear leadership potential, with a few rough edges to smooth out. Whereas, others have hidden leadership potential that emerges slowly and sometimes surprisingly. Without the ongoing interaction between a leader affecting and being affected by the followers, leaders would not grow and emerge (Northouse, 2018, p.5).
Power & Influence
I have struggled with the concept of power and influence in ministry leadership. Northouse (2018) says, “people have power when they have the ability to affect others’ beliefs, attitudes and courses of action” (p.9).
This is a huge part of my role, as university students are impressionable and therefore having any influence on their lives spiritually, is not something to take lightly. The influence campus ministers have is the ability to cause transformation in the lives of students and this is only through God’s power through the Holy Spirit.
Personally, God has used the word “authority” to show me what power and influence means. It has reminded me that in any position I am given, it is a God-given authority that is entrusted to me. This has helped me to step into more influential roles in ministry, with a sense of confidence, peace, healthy fear and humility. In my opinion, healthy leaders should hold the mindset of influence and power being a privilege, not a right.
Group Context & Goal Attainment
Working together in groups on common goals cannot be separated from leadership. What is leadership, if no one is following? Working in teams, can be fun and exciting, but also has many inter-personal challenges. I enjoy when I get to see different team members contributing and growing in their strengths and gifts.
Personally, as a leader of many ministry different teams, the last 5 years, I have discovered three keys to forming a healthy and growing team: 1) strong community 2) strong ownership and 3) strong vision and mission. It has been my experience, that out of these three components, healthy goals are formed and teams move forward together in the direction God is leading them.
Question: If you have led or participated in a team before, what are 1-3 things you have discovered about what it takes to form a healthy and thriving team?
Monica
Northouse, P. G. (2018). Leadership: theory and practice (8th ed.). Thousand Oaks: Sage Publications.
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This has been my favourite exercise so far, but it was pretty frightening to be honest!
I always knew sites were tracking my data, but did not know it was to this extent. Also didn’t know so much of it is without my permission and from sites I am not aware of. I did this exercise for about 15 minutes and the image above was what happened on the Firefox extension: Lightbeams. I went on some of my regular sites I browse: Facebook, eventbrite (mostly for work), instagram, spotify and youtube in that order. The following are some of my observations and comments on the process and findings:
- Going on eventbrite to an event I’m managing for work, increased the trackers a lot! However, I was warned when I opened eventbrite though about cookies and asked if I will accept them. To people who don’t know what cookies are though, they might ignorantly accept them.
- Surprisingly Instagram seemed to have a lot less trackers than I thought. However, if I had clicked on some “ads” or “promo” it probably would have gone up more.
- Facebook, youtube and spotify’s trackers were pretty high as well.
- Facebook’s amount of trackers did not surprise me.
- Spotify and Youtube’s did suprise me, but when I thought about it more it makes sense. Spotify feeds you music based on your preferences. Youtube is similar, feeding you videos they think you’d like, based on what you usually watch.
- I usually use Safari for normal browsing, but I couldn’t find how long they keep cookies for. I did find out that Safari allows you to block cookies if you change your settings in preferences. When this option is on, each time Safari gets content from a website, they place a request not to track you. This sounds good, but the trouble is, it’s an honours system. This means, it is up to the website to honour this request and that is pretty sketchy! I doubt many website heed this request, because as far as I know ethics in this field is still grey and there seems to be a lot of money in tracking.
1. Have you ever witnessed or experienced negative fallout for something you or someone else said online?
Personally, I haven’t experienced this. However, I’ve witnessed some posts on Facebook by some people who are politically passionate and have seen some awful comments and people “tearing them apart” in the comments section. Usually these people are purposely posting things that are provocative or divisive politically.
2. Have you ever witnessed or experienced the public shaming a person or organizations for something that they said online?
Well, we’ve seen a lot of this in the “me too” movement when it comes to sexual harrassment. Saw some online posts of churches and church leaders who were subject to scandale. Thinking specifically of a post I read about Bill Hybels and his church and how he was exposed. Another example I can think of is the celebrity, Bill Cosby and how all those allegations came out about him.
3. What strategies will you employ to ensure that you don’t become a participant or victim of the Internet Rage Machine?
I usually don’t post provoactive or political stuff, because I don’t want to “poke the bear” or comment on heated comment threads. I tend to be careful of my wording and review what I’m about to say several times or think of the consequences of posting this, example: what people might think of me or what this might imply. I think these things are wise, in order to not be a participant or victim of the rage machine.
It’s hard because being so aware of how the internet is a rage machine can make you very “self-concious” digitally of making sure you have some sense of “control” over the right image you want to portray. Realistically though, you cannot control what people are going to think of you, since sadly the online world allows for quick judgements without really understanding the person.
Setting up Hypothesis was quite easy and thought it was cool to be able to comment on the text on the website and see other’s comments.
The content itself was interesting, one of the quote rubbed me the wrong way…
“contact works in multiple ways. Face-time is over-valued”
I’m not a teacher in a classroom or online setting, but I teach through discipling students one-on-one and in my opinion that is best done in-person. A huge aspect of ministry is being “present” with students and being incarnational in how you live your life, allowing them to get to know you and learn from your life. Discipleship is wholistic and “life-on-life” and the online environment can supplement that and I enjoy that aspect of interacting with the students, but the primary and in my opinion most effective way to disciple is “in-person.”
Jesus in his Great Commission passage of Matthew 28:20 mentions that discipleship is “teaching them to obey everything I have comanded you.” I think the “everything” part of teaching is not possible in student ministry, if it only stays in the digital environment.
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