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Category: Follow the Leader

Response to Daniel’s Follow the Leader Assignment

I tried commenting on Daniel’s blog post and it was not showing up, so here’s a post with my comment:

Daniel,
I really appreciate your post on Danielle Strickland, I found it very well written, insightful and encouraging. It encouraged me to hear your awareness on issues women face in ministry and leadership. I also appreciate your honesty, about how your thought immediately went to a male leader, though I am passionate about women in ministry leadership, I often find myself immediately defaulting to male leaders too.
I agree with you on Danielle speaking more to men and more female leaders speaking to men, as being an area where her influence could grow. I think it is really important in order for change to happen. Reminds me of B’s post on Beth Moore and the comments I made on it. I would hope that both women would move more into a sphere of not just influencing women, but men as well.
Also, I definitely don’t crucify you for saying that there are things men can do that women can’t and vice versa. I agree with this in part, but I think it could be limiting on both sides of the gender to say “cannot do” (unless you are referring to biology of course). Yes, I agree  women can do certain things better than men and men can do certain things better than women, but I have seen women being gifted in more “male dominated” areas of ministry and vice-versa. Just some thoughts, maybe I misunderstood of misinterpreted the comment, feel free to clarify if you like.
Also love your closing comment on being “co-heirs with Christ and co-workers in the world.” Please know, that as a women in ministry, I so appreciate this post and am very encouraged by your thoughts!
Monica

Follow the Leader

There are a several opinion leaders I admire and in doing this assignment, I realized I actually do not follow many of them on social media, which is something that I would like to do after finishing this assignment!

When it comes to social media, I am mostly on Instagram and Facebook, but there is one blog I follow by a Canadian pastor, Carey Nieuwhof, that I have found helpful in my context of leading a Christian ministry. I follow him on his instagram and on his blog, which I subscribe to and receive directly to my email account.

The reason I was drawn to Nieuwhof’s material, was because it was super helpful, practical, strategic and tailored to ministry leaders. I appreciate the way he writes, because it is usually: “5 keys to X” or “10 lessons on Y.” I like this kind of structure and writing as it is easy to read and take in. Also the titles tend to draw me in out of curiosity. His aim that he articulates on his website is to help ministry leaders “thrive in life and leadership” (Nieuwhof, n.d.). I really appreciated how he opened up about his experience with burnout and other issues he has had as a Christian leader in some of his blogs. There were also some really helpful blogs he wrote on time management and he occasionally offers online seminars.

Two significant ideas that this leader espouses are:

1) Helping leaders overcome obstacles (internal and external).

2) The importance of strategy as a ministry leader.

Helping Leaders Overcome Obstacles

In regards to overcoming obstacles, I relate to these as a ministry leader and in my personality. I often see potential in people and organizations and can sometimes identify what the barriers are to growth. Therefore, I relate to the way Nieuwhof thinks and I want to grow my skills in identifying barriers and communicating them. I find from some of his blogs I am learning to be sharper in this skill.

Personally, overcoming obstacles, is something that I seek to do in my own life. I am aware that there are still things that hinder me from growth in my relationship with God and as a leader. I find Nieuwhof’s blogs sometimes help identify those areas, so I can become aware, confess, pray, obey and invite the Holy Spirit to transform me. One example, is one of his blogs on pride, which I found enlightening, challenging and convicting.

Importance of Strategy as a Ministry Leader

Nieuwhof seems to get a lot of flak for this aspect of his writing, as I think some ministry leaders struggle with his focus on quality, growth, numbers and size. I understand their struggle, but personally, when I read his blogs on strategy, I see his heart being that he wants churches and ministries to improve in quality, so more people can know Jesus. I think he believes that God works in powerful ways and does not need us, but he is also aware of the reality that churches and ministries tend to be unattractive to the unchurched. I also appreciate and have learned from this focus on quality and relating to the culture, especially when it comes to his blogs on better communication in preaching or on social media.

The advice I would give Nieuwhof, is to be careful of his wording and tone at times. Occasionally in his blogs, there can be harshness, an edge or a slight tone of arrogance that could cause reactions from people. Personally, I sometimes get put-off by it, but I still think there is value to the things he writes. I have also noticed on some of his recent blogs that his frustrations seem to be coming out towards his critics. I cannot imagine how tough it must be to have critics and we are human, so no judgement. I have just noticed some subtle shots fired at critics in some recent blogs. I appreciate his vulnerability in some of those posts though, showing that he is human and criticism is not easy.

I appreciate Niewhof’s values, ethics and principles in the area of helping leaders and ministries grow and thrive and how he shares some of his own journey as a Christian leader. Personally, God is leading me into a season, where he wants me to learn more skills in the area of ministry strategy and growth, so I think Niewhof is a good resource. I do not agree with everything he writes and I make sure to discern the things I question, which I think everyone should do with every leader! Putting leaders on a pedestal can be a very dangerous thing to do and it is important to never stop thinking critically about what your pastor or leaders says. Leaders are human and they do not always have it right. I think Niewhof is succeeding in what he is aiming to do, which is providing resources to Christian leaders to help them thrive and grow.

Monica

 

References

Nieuwhof, Carey. (n.d). Carey Nieuwhof. Retrieved from https://careynieuwhof.com/.

Nieuwhof, Carey. (n.d). 5 habits that reveal you’re a prideful leader (and 5 keys to humility).  Retrieved from https://careynieuwhof.com/5-habits-that-reveal-youre-a-prideful-leader-5-keys-to-humility/.

 

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