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Rank, Talk, Write Activity

I chose the article by Cahalan (2017) on Integrative Knowing and Practical Wisdom because I studied theology in my undergrad and currently work in a ministry setting. This article was well written, insightful and I found myself tracing my steps of development as a minister through her descriptions.

Cahalan starts off by illustrating two different experiences she had observing ministers presiding over funerals and questions the process of how one priest turned out one way and the other differently(Cahalan, 2017). She asks the question: “How did this priest learn to be this kind of minister?” (Cahalan, 2017). She then goes on to describe an overview of what does developing “practical wisdom” entail under the title “The Intelligence of Practice” (Cahalan, 2017). This sets up her descriptions for the stages in development that she outlines afterwards (Cahalan, 2017). I chose to summarize the 4 titles after”Intelligence of Practice” in her article because it seemed the most fitting for this assignment.

In terms of ranking them in importance, I do not think with this particular article there is a place for that, as from what I understand all the stages Cahalan described are important to the growth of a minister and so I labelled them as Stage 1, 2, 3 and 4  in the order that they are written in Cahalan’s article. She defines the people in the stages of development as: novice, practitioner, professional and finally expert (Cahalan, 2017).

Stage 1: “In the Beginning”

To start novices have limited “practical wisdom” and rely on:  theory, rules, steps and mimicking others. They generally struggle with: being self-conscious and have limited ability to read dynamics (Cahalan, 2017).

Stage 2: “Advancing in Practice”

With practice and time novices become practitioners meaning they are less dependent on theories, models and rules and become more intuitive. They grow in reading and assessing situations through comparing other situational experiences (Cahalan, 2017).

Stage 3: “Competence in Practice”

Practitioners become professional with more time and practice and this takes the form of both skill and character development. Skill development produces more competency and character development produces authenticity (Cahalan, 2017).

Stage 4: “Another Kind of Competence: Expertise or Unknowing?”

Becoming an expert is not something everyone attains or strives for in their fields, but when pursued requires hours of practice in honing skills and it requires in some ways going back to the beginning and becoming a novice again (Cahalan, 2017).

Cahalan’s stages of development were very well-rounded and described and I see that process in my life as a minister. I guess I wonder though in relation to her article, what about those people who do not develop accordingly? Maybe they get stuck in Stage 1 or 2 and how much does personality, natural skills, background and deeper rooted unresolved issues have to do with it? Also for some, is it just that they chose the wrong profession and therefore are not advancing?

 

References

Cahalan, K.,Foley, E. and G. S. Mikoski eds. (2017). Integrative Knowing and Practical Wisdom in Integrating Work in Theological Education. Eugene, OR: Wipf and Stock.

Response to JGarland: Light from Many Lamps Part 2

Thank you JGarland for your  “Light from Many Lamps” post on the reading in Part 2 on Abraham Lincoln (Watson, 1951, pp. 68-71). It was really well written and well referenced! I was struck by two things that JGarland pointed out about Lincoln through this post:

  • His strong emotions/sensitivity, coupled with mental toughness.
  • His humility, coupled with his confidence.

I noticed that in these coupled traits Lincoln possessed: 1) emotions and toughness 2) humility and confidence; they can sometimes be seen in juxtaposition with each other, rather than how strong they can be when combined together.

Generally, leaders are discouraged to express their emotions or to show sensitivity, but Lincoln though he was sensitive, also carried great mental toughness and resoluteness. I think that combination is really powerful and not something you see all the time. When it comes to leadership, we tend to think of emotions equating to being mentally weak, but Lincoln demonstrated the opposite in his leadership.

Personally, it has taken me awhile to feel comfortable to express my emotions as a leader and it is something I am still growing in. I would rather appear “strong” emotionally especially as a woman in leadership, as people tend to easily dismiss women leaders when their emotions show too much. Women leaders sometimes decide because of this issue, that they are going to be tough and that means showing no emotions. Lincoln, though a male leader, paved a way in this. I think male leaders probably face similar feelings in terms of “appearing strong” when leading, but for different reasons than women.

The point about his humility coupled with confidence really stood out to me as well, since again this is an interesting and unique combination of traits Lincoln possessed and something I can relate to. In this last year I have noticed I have had a “growth spurt” in confidence as a leader. It came out of a very humbling year where I faced a lot of deep rooted fears and God grew me through it. I now have a new found confidence that has been showing, but it is rooted in the lessons of humility through trials. I think in general we have a hard time figuring out where humility fits with confidence or what that can look like, until we see it portrayed in the life of a leader we admire.

It seems that sometimes the qualities of good leaders are combinations of seemingly contradictory traits. These traits when mingled together and applied in difficult or unexpected circumstances lead to extraordinary leadership, as it did for Lincoln when he led America through difficult years.

 

References

Watson, L.E. (1951). Light from Many Lamps. New York: Simon and Schuster.

Light from Many Lamps-“Lead, Kindly Light…the Night is Dark”

I chose John Henry Newman’s “Lead, Kindly Light…the Night is Dark, and I am Far from Home” in Part 2 for this assignment (Watson, 1951, p. 39-44). The leadership lesson I took from this reading was: leaders who experience trials can grow a greater faith and therefore a greater impact on the lives of others.

This lesson really resonated with me, as I recently experienced a very difficult year of many trials including: difficult leadership situations and decisions, financial struggles, personal health issues and a family member passing away. This was only after a year of being in leadership and it was the hardest year of my life to date. Through the storms and trials, I grew a deeper and more resolute faith in Jesus and was humbled knowing how little control I had over my life.

Similar to Newman, I experienced a miracle in my personal health situation and resolution in the other difficult circumstances within a few days. In my health situation my recovery was looking bleak and then I recovered far better than the doctors ever thought I could! I personally relate to this excerpt from this reading:

All at once he saw meaning and purpose in the pattern of his suffering. He had been struck down by the hand of Providence — and by that hand had been raised up again! He felt sure he had been saved for a purpose, that God had work for him to do. He was filled with love and gratitude, and with a great humility (Watson, 1951, p. 40).

Personally, that year was not an easy journey, but through it I experienced a greater depth in my understanding of God’s love for me and a thankfulness for the blessings I have. Similar to Newman, the way my health situation resolved gave me the same sense that God had allowed all this for a purpose and was raising me up again with a deeper trust, confidence and peace found in Him.

It has been 10 months since those trials came to a close in a matter of days and my husband and I’s lives have been forever changed. I have seen how God used suffering, to make me stronger and now I see that my ministry is having a greater impact than it was before. Now, it is less about me and more about Jesus.

My leadership has also changed, I have seen a great difference in the way I lead, in comparison to before. I still have my struggles and imperfections in my relationships and leadership. However, my roots in my relationship with Christ are deeper and I am not easily shaken, as I was before.

I look back on that year now with a deep sense of gratitude that God allowed all that to happen and trusted me to walk through it. I still tear up remembering how difficult it was and there is still grief to process. However, in the same way that Newman’s hymn had such an impact on people, I know that God will use those dark times I experienced to shine light into the lives of others.

 

Header photo: pexels.com by Lennart Kcotsttiw shared under Pexels (BY) license.

 

References

Watson, L.E. (1951). Light from Many Lamps. New York: Simon and Schuster.

Response to Daniel-Light from Many Lamps

I really appreciated Daniel’s blog post on the story “Seneca” in Light from Many Lamps. I can resonate with the story and also Daniel’s comment on God knowing what is best for us and sometimes how it causes us to step outside of our comfort zone.

Recently, as a leader I was faced with a difficult ministry decision that to be honest, was pretty blind-siding. It came as a suggestion from leaders above me, but the decision was basically left in my hands and it had many implications and was emotionally difficult. It also was a decision that would be taking me in a different direction in ministry. I was sure God had meant me to stay serving in this particular place for awhile longer and had not been expecting a change in direction.

Through much prayer, thought, discernment and guidance from others, I came to a decision that I did not expect. The decision was to move in a different direction in ministry, to a different place and in a faster time frame than I had thought. Through the discerning process, God made it clear to me that He knew what was best for me, He knew what was best overall for the ministry, and also how this fit in His plan is to advance His Kingdom.

The quote Daniel referenced from this story is very fitting to what my experience has been: “True happiness is to understand our duties toward God and man; to enjoy the present, without anxious dependence upon the future” (Watson, 1951, p. 8).

Moving in this direction is really out of my comfort zone and that was a struggle to process through, but I am aware and have experienced in the past that obedience to God’s will is the best course of action.  Interestingly enough, before I knew about this change, I had a sense God was leading me into a “new season”. I thought that only had to do with entering this MA Lead program, little did I know it was going to be new in many other ways!

Monica

Watson, L.E. (1951). Light from Many Lamps. New York: Simon and Schuster.

Unit 2-Learning Activity 3

Overall I found these three assessments enlightening, encouraging and helpful!

Northouse (2018) provides definitions of the leadership approaches that these assessments are based in: 1) Trait: focused on personality characteristics of the leader 2) Skills: focused on the leader’s capabilities 3) Behavioural: focused on what leaders do and how they behave (p. 73).

Trait Approach (LTQ)

For this assessment I asked five of my team to do the survey. The scores on dependable and determined were the most enlightening. My team’s average was notably higher on dependable than my score. Lately, I have been worried about being dependable as a leader, because I have multiple roles and responsibilities and am now doing this part-time MA. In juggling many things, I noticed I can sometimes be forgetful or fail to follow through on things. I want my team to feel like they can rely on me and trust I will do what I say.

I was challenged when my team scored me lower on determined than I scored myself. I have always seen myself as a very determined person and my husband, my family and close friends often comment on this. This makes me want to ask my team more about their scores, because I may need to grow more in this area in the ministry setting.

Skills Approach

For the skills assessment, I was surprised that my technical score was as high as it was, at 18. I generally shy away from technical things as much as possible. The human and conceptual scores did not surprise me, as both were very high and equally scored at 27. I have known those two areas are my leadership strengths.

Behavioural Approach

For the behavioural approach, the results were not surprising. Both task and relationship were high. Task was scored at 40 and relationship at 45. I know I prefer relationship over task, but I am still very task-driven.

This exercise was good to do and I would like to use these assessments in my ministry staff team, as we navigate changes for the near future and a possible shift in leadership roles.

 

Northouse, P. G. (2018). Leadership: theory and practice (8th ed.). Thousand Oaks: Sage Publications.

 

Response to Daniel’s Follow the Leader Assignment

I tried commenting on Daniel’s blog post and it was not showing up, so here’s a post with my comment:

Daniel,
I really appreciate your post on Danielle Strickland, I found it very well written, insightful and encouraging. It encouraged me to hear your awareness on issues women face in ministry and leadership. I also appreciate your honesty, about how your thought immediately went to a male leader, though I am passionate about women in ministry leadership, I often find myself immediately defaulting to male leaders too.
I agree with you on Danielle speaking more to men and more female leaders speaking to men, as being an area where her influence could grow. I think it is really important in order for change to happen. Reminds me of B’s post on Beth Moore and the comments I made on it. I would hope that both women would move more into a sphere of not just influencing women, but men as well.
Also, I definitely don’t crucify you for saying that there are things men can do that women can’t and vice versa. I agree with this in part, but I think it could be limiting on both sides of the gender to say “cannot do” (unless you are referring to biology of course). Yes, I agree  women can do certain things better than men and men can do certain things better than women, but I have seen women being gifted in more “male dominated” areas of ministry and vice-versa. Just some thoughts, maybe I misunderstood of misinterpreted the comment, feel free to clarify if you like.
Also love your closing comment on being “co-heirs with Christ and co-workers in the world.” Please know, that as a women in ministry, I so appreciate this post and am very encouraged by your thoughts!
Monica

Follow the Leader

There are a several opinion leaders I admire and in doing this assignment, I realized I actually do not follow many of them on social media, which is something that I would like to do after finishing this assignment!

When it comes to social media, I am mostly on Instagram and Facebook, but there is one blog I follow by a Canadian pastor, Carey Nieuwhof, that I have found helpful in my context of leading a Christian ministry. I follow him on his instagram and on his blog, which I subscribe to and receive directly to my email account.

The reason I was drawn to Nieuwhof’s material, was because it was super helpful, practical, strategic and tailored to ministry leaders. I appreciate the way he writes, because it is usually: “5 keys to X” or “10 lessons on Y.” I like this kind of structure and writing as it is easy to read and take in. Also the titles tend to draw me in out of curiosity. His aim that he articulates on his website is to help ministry leaders “thrive in life and leadership” (Nieuwhof, n.d.). I really appreciated how he opened up about his experience with burnout and other issues he has had as a Christian leader in some of his blogs. There were also some really helpful blogs he wrote on time management and he occasionally offers online seminars.

Two significant ideas that this leader espouses are:

1) Helping leaders overcome obstacles (internal and external).

2) The importance of strategy as a ministry leader.

Helping Leaders Overcome Obstacles

In regards to overcoming obstacles, I relate to these as a ministry leader and in my personality. I often see potential in people and organizations and can sometimes identify what the barriers are to growth. Therefore, I relate to the way Nieuwhof thinks and I want to grow my skills in identifying barriers and communicating them. I find from some of his blogs I am learning to be sharper in this skill.

Personally, overcoming obstacles, is something that I seek to do in my own life. I am aware that there are still things that hinder me from growth in my relationship with God and as a leader. I find Nieuwhof’s blogs sometimes help identify those areas, so I can become aware, confess, pray, obey and invite the Holy Spirit to transform me. One example, is one of his blogs on pride, which I found enlightening, challenging and convicting.

Importance of Strategy as a Ministry Leader

Nieuwhof seems to get a lot of flak for this aspect of his writing, as I think some ministry leaders struggle with his focus on quality, growth, numbers and size. I understand their struggle, but personally, when I read his blogs on strategy, I see his heart being that he wants churches and ministries to improve in quality, so more people can know Jesus. I think he believes that God works in powerful ways and does not need us, but he is also aware of the reality that churches and ministries tend to be unattractive to the unchurched. I also appreciate and have learned from this focus on quality and relating to the culture, especially when it comes to his blogs on better communication in preaching or on social media.

The advice I would give Nieuwhof, is to be careful of his wording and tone at times. Occasionally in his blogs, there can be harshness, an edge or a slight tone of arrogance that could cause reactions from people. Personally, I sometimes get put-off by it, but I still think there is value to the things he writes. I have also noticed on some of his recent blogs that his frustrations seem to be coming out towards his critics. I cannot imagine how tough it must be to have critics and we are human, so no judgement. I have just noticed some subtle shots fired at critics in some recent blogs. I appreciate his vulnerability in some of those posts though, showing that he is human and criticism is not easy.

I appreciate Niewhof’s values, ethics and principles in the area of helping leaders and ministries grow and thrive and how he shares some of his own journey as a Christian leader. Personally, God is leading me into a season, where he wants me to learn more skills in the area of ministry strategy and growth, so I think Niewhof is a good resource. I do not agree with everything he writes and I make sure to discern the things I question, which I think everyone should do with every leader! Putting leaders on a pedestal can be a very dangerous thing to do and it is important to never stop thinking critically about what your pastor or leaders says. Leaders are human and they do not always have it right. I think Niewhof is succeeding in what he is aiming to do, which is providing resources to Christian leaders to help them thrive and grow.

Monica

 

References

Nieuwhof, Carey. (n.d). Carey Nieuwhof. Retrieved from https://careynieuwhof.com/.

Nieuwhof, Carey. (n.d). 5 habits that reveal you’re a prideful leader (and 5 keys to humility).  Retrieved from https://careynieuwhof.com/5-habits-that-reveal-youre-a-prideful-leader-5-keys-to-humility/.

 

Header photo: pexels.com by jeshoots.com shared under Pexels (BY) license.

 

Response to Chris Vacher’s Activity 4

Here is the link to Chris Vacher article on Activity 4. I enjoyed reading his article and thought it was a really good point that he made that assigned leadership is top down, while emergent is bottom up, I also found his question very relatable and a good reflection:

As a leader, do you find yourself more comfortable when you are the assigned leader or the emergent leader?

I realized in reflecting on that question, that I am more comfortable as an assigned leader. I think the reason is that having a clear position gives me a sense of security in my role and what I can and cannot do.

I remember when I was an emerging leader, that I always worried about over-stepping or coming across too strong to the leaders I worked with. When leadership is assigned there are clearer expectations and boundaries I seem to thrive more. When I did the Birkman test, I came out as having a high Freedom score, but I do need some structure or at least knowing what is expected of me. I think this is because my Birkman score on Authority is fairly high. I generally respect authority, although I find myself often wanting to push against it. This was a really interesting question to reflect on and it made me wonder if that insecurity I have stems from a deeper issue in my life or if it is just a personality thing, like my Birkman might show. Probably a bit of both?

I know in leadership something that makes me feel insecure and I struggle with, is when I feel disrespected by team members. This usually happens when boundaries are pushed or crossed and expectations that I clarified are not met.

Question: What have you noticed makes you feel insecure as a leader?

Monica

 

Assignment 5-Servant Leadership

Three principles of Servant Leadership I want to highlight are: Healing, Persuasion and Building Community (Spears, 2002, pp.1-16).

Healing

The characteristic of Healing means to “care about the personal well-being of the followers” (Spears, 2002, pp.1-16). An example of this, from my experience, comes out of recognizing where the person is coming from and their past experiences. There have been cases where I have taken people onto my team, who have either come from toxic ministry situations recently or in the past. In one of these situations, I found the experience that this person had come from, to be similar to one I had been through and was still healing from. Listening to this individual’s experience and being able to offer advice and support, was a healing experience for me as I worked through the situation I had dealt with.

Persuasion

“Persuasion is clear and persistent communication that convinces others to change” (Spears, 2002, pp.1-16). Recently, the ministry organization I am with, have rolled out a lot of changes. We are entering a season of adaptive change and part of my role as a team leader was to communicate those changes to our staff team this summer. This communication required persuasion and that meant I had to be clear on what the changes actually were and also highlight the need for them to happen. In regards to the implications of the changes I wanted to invite our staff team into that process to explore and to join us in discovering what to do next, not to look to myself and the other ministry leader to have all the answers.

Building Community

I enjoy building community and this comes naturally to me. An example of this is in our ministry team we take time to do something fun together, at least once a month as a team, during work hours. This allows us to build a sense of community through shared experiences. We also take time at the end of every ministry year to go away and do a staff retreat together in one big house for a week. This is a great time of bonding, where we share openly and grow in a sense of unity as a team. I have also found praying for each others needs in our team check-in time is a way for team members to feel connected and support each other (Spears, 2002, pp.1-16).

I think currently the principle that will be most challenging for me to consistently realize in my context is Persuasion, because as the characteristic is described it requires “clear and persistent communication that convinces others to change” (Spears, 2002, pp.1-16). The persistent part is what will be most challenging because of all the other priorities I have in my ministry role. The only way things are going to change, is to persistently communicating the need for change and give my team space to explore and try new ideas. The couple meetings we had as a team, are not going to facilitate adaptive change happening, we need to come back to our need for adaptive change over and over for something to really change.

Question: In your experience, what were some barriers that hindered your team or organization from changing?

Monica

 

Northouse, P. G. (2018). Leadership: theory and practice (8th ed.). Thousand Oaks: Sage Publications.

Spears, L.C. (2002). Tracing the past, present, and future of servant-leadership. In L.C. Spears & M. Lawrence (Eds.), Focus on leadership: Servant-leadership for the 21st century (pp. 1-16). New York, NY: Wiley.

Assigned and Emergent Leaders-Learning Activity 4

To quote Northouse (2018), “Assigned leadership is based on a formal title or position in an organization. Emergent leadership results from what one does and how one acquires support from followers” (p. 15).

There have been several instances where I “emerged” as a leader. One particular instance was a couple years ago when I was overseas on a mission trip with the organization I do ministry with. The two leaders (directors) gave me a fairly large role on the mission trip and I accomplished it well. I also helped organize other aspects of the trip and sometimes would be thinking ahead and reminding the directors of things we needed to get done. The directors expressed appreciation for the role I played and how I supported them. Through leading in my role on my team and helping take responsibility for other parts of the trip, that were not expected of me, I demonstrated emergent leadership to the directors and other team members. The following year I was asked to co-direct that same trip.

The section on managers and leaders was very interesting, Bennis and Nanus (2007) described the difference as the following:

To manage means to accomplish activities and master routines, whereas to lead means to influence others and create visions for change” ( p.221).

I identified that my ministry organization has a very combined approach to their assigned leadership roles.  Their roles often entail both management and leadership combined. However, I have found that the management side always seems takes over and it becomes 80% management, 20% leadership. There are good changes being made, but there is still a constant barrage of management tasks do, as well as national and local priorities that still make management a huge part of the role.

Personally, I appreciated Zaleznik’s (1977) viewpoint that narrowed it to the fact that managers and leaders should be distinct (p. 14). I have been thinking about what that would look like in my ministry context. Potentially we could have an assigned managers and an assigned leader who leads a team together. This could be a personal bias, but because I naturally lean towards leadership, I think if I had less management on my plate, I could really thrive in leadership. Our organization has entered a season of adaptive change and through this I am noticing more of my natural bent towards leadership, rather than management.

To conclude, it is clear there definitely is a difference between management and leadership. I think dependent on the context, personalities of the leaders and the goals of the team, it is important for companies and organizations to define how management and leadership interact, especially when trying to apply change. In defining how they interact, it could be decided whether to divide management and leadership between two individuals or combine it together in their assigned leadership roles.

Question: In your context, do you think there should be a distinctive management role and leadership role, for two seperate people or do you think that it should be combined into one role, for one person? Explain.

 

Monica

 

Bennis, W.G., & Nanus, B. (2007). Leaders: The strategies for taking charge (2nd ed.). New York, NY: Harper & Row.

Northouse, P. G. (2018). Leadership: theory and practice (8th ed.). Thousand Oaks: Sage Publications.

Zaleznik, A. (1977, May-June). Managers and leaders:  Are they different? Harvard Business Review, 55, 67-78.

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